Group-think is a funny phenomenon because it can make people go completely crazy over nothing. But it can also make people react to crazy situations as if they were completely normal. Someone recently asked Reddit: "What was the last situation where some weird stuff went down and everyone acted like it was normal, and you weren’t sure if you were crazy or everyone around you was crazy?"
Here are 14 stories about people underreacting to weird, wild and shocking situations, causing these people to wonder if they had lost their minds, or if everyone around them had lost theirs:
1.) From kitskill:
We have a local superhero in our town. Polarman.
Goes around dressed in full costume all the time and helps out people around town. Really nice guy. I think he's on disability or something so he can't work but he still wants to make the world a better place.
The best part is new people seeing him for the first time and everybody else just being like "oh that's just Polarman"
2.) From RevFernie:
Out at a restaurant with my wife and her family.
My mother in law starts choking on her food. No one does anything. So I go to help. Did basic first aid years ago.
5 hits to centre of back. Nothing. She is now foaming at the mouth.
Go to try Heimlich maneuver, on third thrust this huge lump of lamb comes up and lands in her plate.
Her husband, son and other daughter look at me, say nothing and carry on eating their food.
I sit down look at my wife and feel like I am in alternative reality. Did that just happen? Was it really that inconsequential?
To this day only my wife acknowledges what happened and that I saved her mum's life in the middle of a busy restaurant.
I twitch when I think about it still years later.
3.) From clem_fandango__:
I was working in the the United Arab Emirates. One night, I walking on a busy boardwalk with a lot of people from all over the world. This south Asian guy was standing by a lamppost, not really doing anything, when an SUV pulled up and four Emirati Arabs got out, grabbed the guy and threw him into the back and then drove off.
They didn't yell, didn't show any police badges, the guy barely fought back. Nobody said or did anything, even though the street was crowded full of people.
4.) From OMGSpaghettiisawesom:
There was a gas leak in the building where my first morning college class was held. The class still met. There was still a strong gas smell, so I questioned the safety of the situation. The teacher mocked me for being concerned and sarcastically said that he wouldn't take attendance if anyone wanted to leave. I was the only one who did. I had to text my husband to confirm that I was being reasonable.
5.) From mydadlivesinfrance:
There's a guy who rides a motorized bicycle through my neighborhood dressed like a circus ringmaster. It has been going on for 6 weeks now.
Not a motorcycle or a moped, a bicycle with pedals with a 2-stroke engine attached. Goes around 29 mph? It is loud. I can hear him coming for a few minutes, so at least 2 miles of sound carry.
Black tailcoat. Top hat. Puffy white shirt. Scarlet vest. Maroon and gold vertically striped slacks. One time I saw him check the time on a gold pocket watch. Another he puffed on a corn cob pipe.
Every morning at 7:15 he is headed north, every night at 9:45 south. 7 days a week.
I think, "where is he going dressed like that with such punctuality?" "Surely nowhere around here would allow him to dress like that, and he has no backpack, pannier, or other means of transporting a wardrobe change." "He must work 3rd shift, south of town from 10-7, that's 8 hours and an hour lunch." "But 7 days a week?"
I tried following him at night, because I assumed he was heading to work, and following him home would have been creepier than the already super creepy following to work. I had to do it in a car because like I said, he can book it on that motorized bike. I lost him in 2 turns. He runs stop signs, I don't.
The next night i was waiting in my car ready to go. I had 'The more you ignore me the closer I get' by Morrissey cued up. He was late. Super late. Rounding 10PM now. Then I see his flashy white headlight. He must have ran out of gas; he is pedalling, but I was so amped i tried anyways. He was moving at around 6 or 7 mph. I couldn't stay behind him, but I know my every route in, out, and through my neighborhood, I've lived here for 21 years and run 3x a week, so I'm like an atlas of this block. I lost him at around 5 turns. To be fair he saw me about 8 times, he may have gotten scared I was stalking him, probably because I was.
But last night, oh last night, I followed him the whole time. He was back to motor power, and ran every stop sign and red light on the way. I was catching up to him slowly at 30, so that's why i assume he is going 29. He can't lose me now. I have his scent. This is it. I will finally know. After 6 weeks closure.
Anyways he works at f*cking Walmart.
6.) From Assmerelda:
I was a cashier at a supermarket, thank any and every god that I'm no longer there. It was in an uppity kind of town near where I live, so it was normal for people to be incredibly rude and self centered there. However one super busy afternoon, this totally F*CKED up dude was in my line. He started talking out loud about how he smashed someone's head into the concrete and left him there to bleed out. When it was his turn, he didn't have enough money to pay for his $2 and some change soda, emptied his pockets of pills, LSD tabs, a 40, but no money. He accepted that he wouldn't buy the soda, but continued to stand there and ask where I lived, did I have a boyfriend (yes), "oh your boyfriend wouldn't mind if I f*cked you. I'll shoot him if he did". Continued on with increasingly rapey and vulgar comments, the entire time I was hitting the "call manager" button on my screen, must've hit it 25 times and I could see him just standing there talking to a coworker. There were 2 grown men in line behind him who didn't say a WORD. I was saved by a cash-room employee who came for a money pick-up. The guy left, and got arrested in the parking lot because a shopper reported him. He told me he was going to wait for me to be done my shift and find me out there, had he not have been arrested. Nobody ever said a word to me about what had just happened.
Edit: Many of you are saying you would never step in, I completely understand that. By saying the next two men in line didn't say anything, I also meant after the situation. When it was their turn, neither of them even looked at me, let alone say a single word other than "Thanks" at the end of their transaction. Management, after reporting what happened to HR, never contacted me again about what happened. These things were equally upsetting to me as having to try to get this guy to leave on my own.
Also, the man was arrested because a shopper called the cops on him while they were shopping in the aisles, maybe about 15 minutes before he arrived to my checkout line. I believe he was arrested for disorderly conduct due to being intoxicated and being a public disturbance.
Thanks everyone for your insights and takes on the situation
7.) From Moots_point:
A few years back I liked a girl and she invited me to her youth group. Everything was going fine, until the pastor said "Alter call" and then everyone walked up to the front and started rolling around. I really wish I was making this up, there were even people holding down other people as they were shaking/rolling. Afterwards we all went to Pizza Hut and acted as if nothing out of the ordinary had happened.
8.) From claudiyeah18:
I was having dinner with my parents, my sister and her husband. Somehow the topic of abuse came up and my parents said how they never resorted to physical abuse in their marriage and my BIL turned to my sister and said, “I mean I’ve only hit you a couple of times but only when it was serious.” My sisters face turned red, she defended why it happened then laughed it off. Meanwhile I’m absolutely shocked and disgusted by this and my parents joined them and laughed along as well and says “it happens.” I was more shocked that my parents didn’t react properly and to this day I’ll never understand it.
9.) From Yeahitsmeimsorry:
One of my coworkers(bob) will regularly pull a knife on another coworker (John). John teases bob and plays it off as a joke when bob takes the knife out.... this happens so regularly that it’s just accepted as normal... it’s starting to feel normal for me too...
10.) From tah4349:
I was at a gas station pumping gas. There's a cop car and a second car pulled right by the road in the parking lot of the gas station. Cop car has the lights on, I see the cop and some guy standing there. I just pump my gas. All of a sudden, gunshots ring out. Nobody moves. I look around, and everybody is just pumping gas like nothing's happened. Finally see some guy walking toward the station looking equally confused. I said "you heard shots, right?" He was like "yeah....definitely gunshots...."
Turns out it really was no big deal. A deer had been hit on the road and the officer was ending its suffering. But nobody in the parking lot really knew that, we all came up on the situation after it was in process and we couldn't see anything that had happened based on the angle. Just weird all around.
11.) From Redditabower:
I showed an acquaintance a video of an old friend that moved away a few years ago. That friend had a very distinctive laugh. The acquaintance I showed it too proceeded to laugh like him the rest of the night like he had been laughing that way his whole life. He kept it up for months. He stole someone's laugh. It still gives me the willies.
12.) From somemetausername:
Had a guy who used to work where I do we’ll call him Jeff. He was a level above me on the org chart, but still below the CEO. They started to work on a project and announced to the staff, the board and shareholders - but things didn’t make sense. A few other employees saw what I was seeing and started to ask questions about how money was going to be handled how other resources were going to be allocated and what the long term plans where - we were all sidelined and told we were being negative. Jeff treated me and my other co-workers as if he was a genius and we were all his minions even though we were in different departments.
Long story short - launch day for this new project came and the numbers weren’t there, but Jeff was still blaming the rest of the organization. Things fell apart fast and we lost hundreds of thousands of dollars and hundreds of customers. Jeff runs his own company now and just announced a new project to his shareholders...
When the Fyre festival documentaries came out I texted a friend of mine who worked at that company at the time all of this was going down. I told him to watch them both and tell me who Billy McFarland reminds him of. 20 minutes later I get a text “OMG...It’s Jeff.”
The whole time Jeff was doing his thing everyone acted like Jeff was a genius. He could raise money, motivate a crowd, and believed he could talk his way into and out of anything. It was amazing how similar he is to Billy McFarland, the only difference is Jeff hasn’t been caught doing anything illegal yet.
13.) From StoolToad9:
I do standup comedy as a hobby. I went to a packed open mic at this bar, like 50 people. This large woman was eventually called up. She proceeds to take her clothes off and she's naked screaming "I GOT A DATE WITH A BLACK GUY, HE'S GONNA F*CK MEEEEE" over and over.
No one gave a reaction. Most just stared all bored or looked at their phones. I'm like, "Uh, hello? Is anyone else seeing this?!" It felt like a Twilight Zone episode.
Turns out she's been there many times before and people know she's mentally ill, but they feel bad so they let her do her 2 minutes while they stick their heads in the sand. They all reacted like me at first. She still goes to open mics there, but keeps her clothes on. She's still insane.
14.) From juggerd22:
i was walking to school and approaching a crossroad. i was 20 meters from the crossroad and a very short fat person in a yellow robe with a pointy hat walked over the road and nobody looked. just me switching between staring at the fat wizard, the other people on the sidewalks and softly saying "what the hell". now i dont know if there is a kkk branch in the netherlands or if it is a part of a religion or just a role player but that caught me of guard.