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Teen who had kid at 14 snaps at mom for criticizing younger sister having kid at 17.

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Having a child under any circumstance will rock your world. Whether you're partnered up with a fat savings account, or raising the child solo, there are so many aspects of having a kid that no one can prepare you for. For this reason, a lot of people advise against having a kid before you're financially and emotionally ready, which means waiting until you're well past your teen years.

However, pregnancy itself knows nothing of our convenience, and a lot of teen pregnancies are unplanned and end up forcing young mothers (and fathers) into a parenthood they were unprepared for. While there are plenty of teen pregnancies that evolve into a loving family situation, there are also many pregnancies that catapult the young mother (and child) into hardship.

All this is to say, it's a complicated subject that touches on a lot of different nerves for people depending on their personal life experience.

In a recent post on the Am I The *sshole subreddit, a woman asked if she's wrong for getting mad at her mom for telling her sister a teen pregnancy would "ruin her life."

AITA for being angry at my mom for telling my sister that having a baby at 17 will ruin her life like it ruined mine, when I had a baby at 14?

For context, OP shared that she got pregnant at 13 in a less than ideal situation, and ultimately decided to keep the baby.

Originally, when OP got pregnant her mother told her that she wouldn't help out, and OP would have to take the responsibility on herself. This was true for awhile, but OP ended up hustling hard with the help of her brother, and is now in school and living with a long-term. boyfriend

I'm 19 and I had my daughter at 14, got pregnant at 13. It was a terrible situation at first, but I made it work. My mother made it clear from the start that she would give me no help at all with the baby, and I accepted that. I did think she was saying that just to scare me, but when I had my kid it turned out to be true, and I raised her on my own the best I could, including working nights at a shop every day (a small clothes shop where I could take my kid with me) at 14 so I could pay for her to go to daycare when I was at school, and I got all the equipment and clothes for free or very cheap from Facebook. The only person who helped me was my brother, who was 23 at the time. I am now a university student at one of my country's top universities, and I live with my boyfriend of 2 years.

Once OP's mom witnessed her taking the reigns on her mothering responsibilities, she started to embrace grandma duties.

After proving that I could do it, my mom became an amazing grandmother and now she does occasionally help me out.

Well now, OP's 17-year-old sister just found out she's pregnant and wants to move out and keep the baby (alongsider her boyfriend of three years).

My 17 year old sister has been with her boyfriend since they were 14. They are saving up to move out when they turn 18 (they have both just turned 17, though), and my sister just found out she's pregnant. She told me first. She told me she was keeping the baby, and she wanted me there when she told mom, for support and to remind mom it's not always the end of your life.

When OP's sister told their mom the news, their mom got upset about the prospect of another daughter having a child as a teenager.

So, the time came. She sat mom down, and told her. Mom immediately got PISSED. She blew up, saying pretty much the same stuff she said to me, and worse. My sister was crying, but she was standing her ground saying that she is keeping the baby, and then my sister said 'you don't scare me, I have a better support network than (my name)'.

Their mom emphasized how much teen pregnancy can shape and change your life and OP brought up the fact that her younger sister would have even more support than she did.

Mom glared at me, and said, 'well, I was hoping you would have a better life than her, but here we are again'.

The conversation escalated when OP snapped and talked about how she chose to have her baby and everything turned out fine, which caused their mom to storm out.

I snapped. I told her that I chose to have my baby, raised her on my own, worked my ass off, all out of choice, and if my sister wanted to do the same, at least she would have the support of me and my partner, her bf's family, and our brother too. Mom stormed out.

Later on, OP's mom texted to clarify that she doesn't think OP ruined her own life, she just doesn't want her younger daughter to romanticize teen pregnancy.

She sent me a text later saying that she doesn't think I ruined my life, but she wanted to make my sister see teenage pregnancy for what it really is, and not just as 'easy' and 'romanticised' as she sees my life. I was horrified. My sister was 12 and very aware of my situation when I got pregnant, she knows it wasn't easy and I just feel so disrespected.

AITA? I do get my mom's point but feel so hurt.

SefferWeffers sees where everyone is coming from, but doesn't understand why OP is so offended.

NAH but I don't get why you are so offended. Having a kid at 14 is widely considered a dumb idea and generally would only happen by an initial accident. No parent would want that for their teenager.

Music_withRocks_In thinks the mom is a huge jerk for judging OP for a pregnancy that sounds predaorty.

A dumb idea??? She got pregnant at 13. In most civilized places 13 is below the age of consent. A 13 year old is not mature enough to consent to s*x! This girl was raped and her mom gave her no help with the baby. The mom is a huge a*shole.

AngeloPappas agrees with the mom.

NAH - You can feel hurt, but your mom is 100% right. Having a child that young is a dumb idea. Just because you did it, doesn't make it better.

lilbums thinks OP did a good job making lemonade out of her teen pregnancy but also should look at the situation from her mom's perspective.

NAH - you can feel disrespected all you want, but the fact of the matter is, you were stupid and got pregnant at 14 years old.

I applaud you for making it work on your own, that must not have been easy, but obviously your mother wants a better life for your sister.

Having babies when you're still a baby is a bad idea no matter how you slice it, sure it may work out for some people, but that doesn't make it a good decision.

KOMRADE_DIMITRI thinks that OP is defensive because she subconsciously knows she's missed out.

YTA

Couple things to note.

  1. Getting pregnant before you are supporting yourself, by yourself, is ridiculously stupid and self destructive. I don't care if you managed it or not, it's still an incredibly bad idea that strips you of many opportunities.

But here we are again. You do realize your mother most likely feels like an abject failure right now right? She has had 2 pregnant teen daughters, who she has no rose tinted glasses to stop her from seeing the self destruction wrought upon them by that poor decision making. She saw this happen once, and despite whatever changes she might have made to attempt to keep it from happening again, and yet, still failed to stop it.

Rose tinted glasses are blinding you. There are most likely like previously mentioned a great deal of opportunities and potential that was not accessed because you had to raise your child. Your view (like any view) is biased, and to act like yours is not is naive.

Regardless of whether OP's sister ultimately decides to go ahead with the pregnancy or not, the most important thing is that they're able to break bread with their mom again, since her love and support is so essential.


8 rumors about what happened at Jennifer Lawrence's celeb-filled wedding.

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Jennifer Lawrence married New York gallery owner Cooke Maroney over the weekend, and despite the fact that she is Everybody's Best Friend, we weren't invited to the festivities.

We do, however, have access to the internet, so here's all the tea we could find, conveniently in one place.

1. The pair hosted a clambake for their rehearsal dinner.

J.Law and C.Ma hosted 140 guests under a white tent for the wedding, which is intimate compared to the 150 guests they had at their ceremony the next day.

2. The wedding was in a haunted castle in Rhode Island.

Belcourt of Newport is a historic mansion built in 1891 currently owned by Carolyn Rafaelian, the CEO of Alex and Ani. It was built by Richard Morris Hunt, the famous architect who designed the pedestal for the Statue of Liberty, and is said to resemble the hunting lodge at Versailles.

When Rafaelin bought the place, she made sure to "cleanse" the place of evil spirits.

"There were energies and entities, some not pleasant," she told The New York Timesin 2013. "I had a shaman perform ceremonies. We did a major cleansing, energy-wise. There was a lot of heaviness, but we took care of that. Now the house has a different vibration."

3. They arrived via private jet, of course.

4. The bride wore Dior, and the dress had its own hotel room.

People reports:

...the bride wore a design from the French fashion house and it was stored in its own room at the Hotel Viking. According to the source, “the whole design team” flew in the day before the wedding and “held her dress in a private guest room at the Hotel Viking.”

The dress is still being closely guarded. This is the only picture of the bride so far, and it's blurry enough to be a Monet painting.

5. The décor was very autumnal.

Somebody told E!:

The wedding had all the touches of fall with dark colored flowers, apples in baskets and open fire spits roasting beef. All the food was prepared outdoors with wood roasted fish and heirloom roasted carrots and squash as part of the menu.

Come for Jennifer Lawrence, stay for the squash.

6. A lot of celebrities were there.

Adele, Kris Jenner, Amy Schumer, Sienna Miller, Benji Madden and Cameron Diaz, Joel Madden and Nicole Richie, Emma Stone, Bradley Cooper, Josh Hutcherson, and Ashley Olsen (where's Mary-Kate?) were all there, according to People.

Emma Stone wore this awesome velvet coat-thingy.

Kris Jenner wore this.

7. TMZ describes the menu as "over the top."

When the groom's name is Cooke, you can't NOT go all out on food.

The gossip site says that hors d'oeuvres included "brussel sprouts with cured egg yolk," "smoked pork belly with pickled apple," and "salt cod beignets."

The main course had guests choosing between "wood-roasted fish with herbs and lemon-infused butter" and "5-week-aged leg of beef with forager's sauce."

Dessert included "house-made marshmallow s'mores." S'MORES!!!

8. The after-party went all night, and Bradley Cooper ate snacks.

People had another exclusive source: the owner of Boston's Baddest Food Truck and Maine-ly Lobstah:

Kevin Tortorella, the owner of Boston’s Baddest Food Truck and Maine-ly Lobstah, tells PEOPLE he served up The Hub, (a grass-fed 6 oz. cheeseburger on Iggy’s brioche), the “Chicky” (chicken sandwiches), “Bad Dogs” (Hebrew National Hot Dogs), veggie burgers and their famous “RG Fries” which stands for “really good.”

Tortorella, who has a truly incredible last name, was unaware of the celebrity status of the wedding until he rolled up and saw paparazzi.

He says that the people were "really nice," and eating snacks until 3:15 AM.

Congratulations to the happy couple, and to everybody who got to eat those "Really Good" fries!

31 people who had the courage to ask out their crushes share what happened next.

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There are few experiences scarier in this lifetime than asking out your crush. I mean, sure, swimming with sharks or climbing Mount Everest is probably (a little bit) scarier. But I'm sure even people who've done those things would agree that putting your heart on the line for the object of your infatuation is a unique, paralyzing kind of terror. And since life is not a rom com with a happy ending, sometimes asking out your crush can go just as badly as you expect. But no matter how badly it goes: it probably won't kill you (the same can't be said for extreme sports). And when it does go well, there's no better reward.

Someone recently asked Reddit: "People who have the guts to ask their crush out. What happened afterwards?" Here are 27 responses from brave individuals who faced their fears.

Some people's experiences went a lot better than others. Life is a gamble. But you can't win if you never roll those dice.

1.) From UpToMyKnees1004:

She's sitting next me in our apartment playing Minecraft. Never thought she'd actually be interested in me. I guess I was selling myself short.

Do it OP. Could be the best thing you ever do.

2.) From areliving:

He screamed "no" and ran away.

This was in the fifth grade.

3.) From jcs2595:

We went out on a date and I learned she was not the one for me after all. But it was a good lesson and had I not asked her out I'd just agonized over what might've been.

4.) From ramoly:

She said yes. Asked her out on a second date, specifically said the word date this time. She said she didn't know we were going out on dates. Oh well...

5.) From se7en51ns:

She said she wants to go out on a date. One led to two, three, etc. Sunday I’m gonna try and kiss her after our concert.

6.) From Silly_Clouds:

I've had multiple crushes. All of them rejected me and never talked to me again.

7.) From TheEnhancedExe:

When I first asked her out, we knew each other for about 4 months. She blocked off though, but didn't specifically say no. I asked her out a second time 3 months later, but she blocked off again, telling me she wasn't sure whether it was ok to meet. I continued flirting with her, but eventually started chasing her.

Once I realized my mistake and that she stopped showing interest, I stopped chasing her and flirting with her. I didn't show any interest whatsoever for the next 8 months and just acted the same friendly way I acted towards friends. I had basically given up on her although I was still kinda interested. I just didn't show that I was still interested.

Eventually, over a year after I asked her out the second time, she apologized for blocking me off, told me she made a mistake and asked me whether I still wanted to meet up with her. I told her I didn't mind and now we've been dating for four months.

I guess sometimes it's really difficult for two socially awkward people to start dating each other.

8.) From jeffystolemycheerios:

I got rejected she promised to stay friends but now she doesn’t talk to me unless I say something first we haven’t talked one on one for over 2 months because I won’t text first anymore

9.) From hot4you11:

Asked mine out today, have a date on Friday

10.) From Liulfr120:

She punched me in the arm and said “f*ck yeah.” Then we went on the most awkward nerd date because we just wanted to like each other. It was a good nerd date. We are still dating to this day.

11.) From Potatohead272:

I actually asked her to a dance and she said no,

Half a year later I asked another crush to a dance and she said no,

Then half a year after that I asked a different crush to the dance and guess what

HOLY F*CK SHE SAID YES I WAS F*CKING CONFUSED I WASNT USED TO THAT ANSWER

12.) From SteamPunkChewie:

Well we've had someone ghost me, a bunch of standard rejection, me f*cking up terribly with one person in particular and never getting the chance again, and one person admit that they were interested in someone else

13.) From YoSoyGring0:

She thought I was joking. We’re still friends, but it was pretty awkward

14.) From KuudereToiletGoddess:

Not exactly my story, as it is his, but when I was in highschool I had this huge crush on this guy in my friend group (gamers, nerds, outcasts, etc) starting from the 9th grade. He was seriously the funniest person I had ever met, and he was so cool because of it. All my female friends would tell me to just ask him out but I couldn’t because I was so afraid he would say no and make fun of me for the rest of my highschool experience.

In my junior year he left to go to a different school but we still kept in touch because his cousin, who also went to the school, became my best friend (to this day). She had managed to give me his number and after mustering up the courage to text him, he was actually engaged in conversations with me, even though I was lanky and gross.

Then the texting fell off and we grew distant in our senior year. One day my bestie had a family event at her house and my crush was there. We all had such a good time and I realized that my feelings, which had merely been in hibernation, were back and stronger than ever but he was probably too cool to notice me?

Later that day after I went home he messaged me, told me he really liked me, and wanted to date. We dated for almost a year before I had to leave for college and f*ck up my life entirely.

Moral of the story is ask them out! Cause maybe they’ll say yes.

P.S. If you’re put there D, I’m really f*cking sorry..

15.) From definitlynotddevito:

He was the head chef where I worked and I was new in town. We always sat in the same booth during our breaks and got to know each other over the course of a month and found out we had a lot in common. One night before I left I wrote my number down to give it to him and to ask him out. We asked each other “do you wanna hang out?” at the same time and then blushed.

Our first date was at a rooftop bar celebrating a coworkers birthday. He asked me if he could kiss me, that’s when I knew he was the one.

Now, years later, we have a beautiful baby boy that we love more than each other. He still has my phone number in his wallet.

16.) From thermalclimber:

My sophomore, her junior year of college. We got introduced through mutual friends and hit. it. off. We started hanging out at parties we both went to, in the coffee shop at my school, doing homework, all that. We didn’t really seek each other out, just kept running into each other because of our mutual friend groups.

This went on for a month, we’d hang out and chat and flirt jokingly... I didn’t think I had a chance with her being a pretty, popular girl a year older than me so I figured she was just being nice returning my jokes and all (it turns out, she didn’t think she had a chance with me and also thought I was just being nice/friendly with my jokes). Her and her friends would alway joke “when will I be with u/thermalclimber, he’s the light of my life!” and so I didn’t think of it as any less of a fun joke when she did it.

One night we both went out to a bar party with a group of friends and ended up going home with different people. We were chatting about it the next day and I was like “f*ck... this hurts a little, is this feelings?”

A couple days later she mentioned that the guy wanted to grab lunch with her, and she wasn’t sure she was into him the same way. I was walking her home and thought that if I didn’t say something I’d regret it, so I gambled that maybe all that joking/flirting from her was real, told her I had feelings for her, and then spent the longest 5 seconds of my life waiting to hear “I’m glad you said something, because I like you too.”

It’s been 2 and a half years and we’re still going strong.

17.) From ColdDash:

I just recently got my first ever crush.

It is really hard for me to develop feelings for someone, as I need to now this person very good. I know her for more than 2 years now and we never were more than just "school friends".

The last holidays though, we suddenly did more and more together with other friends and I developed feelings for her.

Then, after we had been at a friend's house and slept there after a movie night with 6 people in one room, I should have had to share a bed with a male friend of mine, but I did share this bed with my crush (she liked me, I did not know at that time though, we drank a bit and cuddled before on the sofa while watching movies for a while, so I just went into the bed I should have had to share with my male friend with her, lol)

We cuddled the whole night and I asked her out the next day. She said yes and we are now in a Relationship. I am beyond happy.

Edit: I edited the text a bit to make it better to read and changed a mistake, as my crush should have had slept with 2 other girls on the sofa, not on a bed like me and my male friend.

Edit 2: I am an introvert and she told me, that she had liked me before those holidays already. She actually asked a friend if she would invite me on a small party and with that it all started and we did more and more together.

18.) From yoshiiress:

I have a tip for everyone who finds it difficult to ask out people they’re interested in: Ask them out before you get too attached. Then if they say no its not devastating. If they say yes you get this time to get to know them and you can break it off if you decide you’re actually not interested! If you have to see them often and you’re worried they might treat you differently just say “I just wanted to explore my options with you” if they turn you down. Don’t let them think you were in love with them or something like that. Good luck!!

Edit: Had a lot of people saying they don’t want to ask someone out based off looks. Me neither! You can enjoy someone’s personality without letting yourself fall in love. It takes a little practice especially if you’re young and all your emotions are so intense but you can do it!!

19.) From FannyBabbs:

We're getting married on Saturday.

20.) From LovesMeSomeRedhead:

She said yes and we went out to dinner and saw a movie together. Dropping her off, we kissed on her parents front porch for what seemed like forever. Her dad thought so too because he started flicking the porch lights on and off. Good times.

21.) From AccountGotBanned:

She really wanted to but was busy.

22.) From dexx4d:

I sat next to her in the university cafeteria - it was really, really awkward, then one of her friends came by and made it more so. Turns out we were both really shy, but had a mutual interest in geekery like sci-fi.

We've been married 15 years now.

23.) From flinty_day_off:

He said he wasn’t looking for a girlfriend but he was interested if it was sex only. I politely declined.

24.) From GelfandFomin:

I go to a cafe and the barista is a grade A cutie pie. I just broke up out of a soul sucking relationship three months ago that had laated 7 years and 5 years longer than it should have. We talked often after work (for me) and shared similar tastes in music if not an appreciation for all music, appreciation for film and discussed much of it--even suggested some movies to each other to watch, and shot sarcastic comments back and forth.

I mustered the courage to ask her to go pumpkin carving last weekend and she said she would love to. She asked the next day if I'd like to out because she had a surprise day of work off. We had a four hour conversation at a cafe downtown and then went on a two hour walk. Came back to the car holding hands (in all of my life I've never really done that). She said she wanted to not get into a relationship like that that quickly and I agreed. Drove her home and gave each other a hug good bye.

She asked if k wanted to come over that next Friday evening and cook dinner and watch some scary movies. We did and it was great. Watching people get chainsawed in half had the desired effect, I believe, because I ended up crawling into her arms and squeezing her palms. Watched the next movie and just ended up essentially hugging the entire time and scratching eachothers head. Time to go, and I go to give her a kiss on the cheek goodnight, but she goes for the lips instead. We laugh.

Two nights later and we spend Sunday all together and go thrift store shopping--too much rain for the planned pumpkin carving. Six hours later, I walk her to her car and we look into each other's eyes. I go in for the real deal kiss and she does too.

That was yesterday.

I feel a happiness inside I haven't felt inside in years. We are extremely blunt and to the point with each other (much of the dialogue between us in the above story is this way).

I like her because she makes me want to take care of myself and to be myself. I feel like exercising and studying/reading again for the first time in years all of the sudden.

It has only been little more than a week, and I am hesitant to out labels to this right now. In fact, I don't know why I'm even sharing this. I can tell she is very special to me, and that's all that matters I suppose.

You never know who you will discover behind a face until you talk to them. This has most definitely affected me for the better even if it does not end in the ideal manner.

My only hope is that my old habits do not resurface and hurt this.

Thanks for reading.


25.) From mikopan:

I was an idiot and told him that I wanted to include him in my ‘harem,’ and he got confused but then realized I just confessed my feelings for him. Cue the ‘oh shit i liked u too ur so pretty’ and me freaking out, because I didn’t think I’d get this far.

He then stopped me and said we weren’t gonna date yet bc he had issues he wanted to sort it. 3 months later, a lot of romantic tension, and we began dating.

Now, we’re a month away from our first anniversary.

26.) From Gameboyaac:

She just said "yes! I thought you'd never ask!" And then smiled and hugged me we went to the movies

27.) From sightlab:

I didn’t actually ask him out. But at a party I let him know how I felt, and that I’d wanted to ask him out for a long time - we’d become good friends and I wasn’t too worried. He was taken aback and delighted. “Awwwww my dude!” He said, blushing “I’m straight but...that almost makes me wish I wasn’t! Really?? You think I’m that cute?” He gave me a hug and I felt his back muscles rippling through his T-shirt. “I’m totally using this as an excuse to feel your back muscles” I told him. He hugged me tighter.
He’s one of my closest bros, and one of the few people I can be utterly, grotesquely open with. 22 years later we live 1500 miles apart but we still text often.

28.) From garycarroll:

She said no. But, not a hard "no, Im not interested" just "I already have other plans" or something similar.

The same thing the next time I asked her.

Repeat for 18 times. The 19th time she went out with me.

By the fourth date or so we were talking in terms of "When we get married we'll...".

That was 46 years ago, married for 43 years now, more in love than ever.

29.) From imnotinsane13:

I confessed to my crush at a homecoming rally.

He said “I know.”

That was it.

He recently came out and I’m happy for him.

30.) From LordDongle:

Got rejected, became her friend, met up for drinks after college 7 years later and wound up married to my best friend.

Focused on myself and became a better version of me. Wild how attractive that can make you.

31.) From Waldemar-Firehammer:

I dated her for 8 years, then married her. Two years strong marriage last week!

If you ask your crush out, the worst that happens is you're embarrassed for a couple days. The reward, however, has the potential to be life changing.

Now get out there and ask out your crush!!! Or, better yet, send them this post. They'll get the message.

Woman asks if it was wrong to curse out stranger who accused her of 'stealing' handicapped spot.

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People make a lot of assumptions about disabilities and what qualifies someone to use a handicapped parking spot. There are a lot of physical disabilities and sources of chronic pain and difficulty that are invisible to the naked eye, so unless someone is overt about stealing space from a disabled person, it's best to not assume they don't need it themselves.

Sadly, because of misinformation and a culture that still systemically erases the diverse realities of disability (both physical and mental), the general public has a very limited image of who is disabled.

If you appear "young and healthy" it's not uncommon for people to accuse you of faking it, or not having a valid ailment, which opens up a very complex can of worms.

In a recent post on the Am I The *sshole subreddit, a young woman asked if she was wrong for snapping at an older woman who demanded her parking spot.

AITA for /how/ I told someone I would not give up my handicap spot?

OP contextualized the post by sharing that she has an issue that makes walking painful and difficult, and she recently had surgery for it.

This is a throwaway account.

For background, I (22F) am very petite, fit, and just by looking at me one would not guess I have a physical disability. 2 weeks ago, I had surgery with incisions on my spine and one butt cheek making walking more difficult temporarily. Though, I have a handicap placard not just because I had surgery, but for the overall problem that me to be unable to walk long distances.

Because OP is young and appears healthy, people are often surprised when she needs extra accomodations.

I’m not asking AITA for refusing to give up my spot, but because of what I said. My brother thinks I went too far, but I think I afforded the woman the same amount of respect she gave me.

During a recent dinner outing with her brother, OP was blocked from a handicap parking space by a woman who claimed OP didn't need it.

I was going out to dinner with my brother (passenger seat.) I pulled into one of 4 handicap spots in front of a restaurant and the woman (late 60s) in the car to my right immediately opened her door to block my brother from getting out. We waited a few seconds, and it became clear this was intentional. I got out of the car and asked her if she would close her door.

The situation quickly escalated when the other woman called OP names and claimed she should "suck up" the physical pain of walking longer distances.

The woman also accused OP of scamming the government.

The woman immediately started berating me, saying I had no right to use the handicap spot as other people “that actually need it” would be unable to park. Apparently, I am young and skinny enough to suck it up (though she doesn’t know what my disability is) and deal with parking far away. She called me an entitled brat and accused me of “scamming the government to support [my] lazy a*s,” among other things. I told her a doctor saw fit I get a handicap placard, and when she said I look “fine” I told her that my medical history is none of her business. She continued to insult me, even calling me a lazy b*tch at one point, and refused to close her door.

Eventually, OP snapped and gave the woman a taste of her own medicine.

I eventually had enough and let her have it. I told her something along the lines of, maybe if you didn’t eat yourself into debilitating obesity others ‘that actually need it’ would be able to use your spot. She tried to respond by saying her weight was due to medical issues, to which I cut her off to say if she’s going to make assumptions about me I will do the same. I called her a miserable old bitter b*tch and told her at her big old age she should have learned to mind her business. She threatened to call the police on me for reasons she was unable to verbalize and I told her to go ahead and pointed to the restaurant we were going to and told her to send them in.

As the situation heated up, and woman threatened to call the cops, to which OP said "go ahead."

Eventually, her brother tried to de-escalate matters.

When my brother heard this he finally crawled out of the driver's side. He said something like calm down and let's go inside, and I said that sounds like a great idea if the nosy b*tch will leave us alone, but she seems too fat to follow up with the police and bring them inside. Then we walked away with her still yelling things at me with her door open. She either didn’t call the police or they refused to come.

OP doesn't regret standing firm on keeping her space, but she is wondering whether she took it too far with the name calling.

I know what I said was harsh but I’m pretty tired of people making assumptions about my pain and telling me about my pain. Maybe I should regret it, but I don’t have an ounce of remorse for what I said. AITA?

gustavotherecliner thinks OP was completely within her rights.

NTA. You chewing her out was well deserved.

JMoses3419 thinks the whole exchange went too far.

Okay...I’m going with ESH, but I do so unwillingly. Admittedly, you went a bit too far, BUT she started the whole mess and she did deserve some sort of verbal reaming for what she did because that shit is completely uncool. I also know the struggle is very real for people who can’t walk long distances. Unseen illnesses and disabilities are in fact real, people.

Ory_Hara_8492 thinks the other woman got what she was asking for.

NTA, she picked a fight so nobody should be surprised if she gets one.

tinynidas thinks the other woman was completely wrong, but that OP should've taken the higher road.

ESH

She clearly sucks and shouldn’t have done any of the things she did.

You were in the clear until you started attacking her weight/lifestyle. Being angry, yelling at her, saying she were an asshole: totally ok.

But using society’s biases to hurt her wasn’t great. Just because a member of a certain group is acting badly, its not ok to start hurling specific slurs about that group at people. It doesn’t help the situation and it doesn’t help society.

Anyway: she fucking sucks and I hope your operation has helped and that your recovery is going well.

DragonCelica thinks it was really important for OP to stand up for herself in this situation.

NTA. I became disabled at 21. I've had lots of comments and reactions since I drive a rather custom and "visually loud" car. Until recent developments, I was also very fit and trim and thus looked "healthy". I've had plenty of rude, snide, and judgemental comments. Someone posted my car on Facebook even though I had my placard. Another time someone reported my car at a river's day camp area out in the boonies. The officer had to have taken at least 90 minutes to get there so I can only imagine how much fun that call must have been for them to listen to.

I understand how you feel. I'm usually the type that kills'em with kindness as the saying goes. I've managed to make a few apologize and end up having a really positive discussion and I hope they take their new perspective with them. It takes a lot to get under my skin since I've been living this for 15 years. Sometimes though, someone really goes for the gold of judgmental AHoles, so yeah....

SHE DESERVED IT

She was fighting her righteous cause apparently. So much so that your brother had to crawl out the other side?!?! What if he had been the disabled one? What if he needed your help asap? I'm not sure that would have stopped her attitude, and that's a risk. This lady needed to be knocked off her pedestal! You had to stand up to her and use whatever tactic would drive the point home of just how judgemental she was being. If it stops her from doing it again, it's worth it. It's not her place to police handicapped parking spaces. I know of too many disabled people that don't feel strong enough to handle a confrontation like this, so they don't go out and become isolated.

You don't need to feel remorse, because sometimes you have to fight fire with fire. That inner spark of yours helps you in your own fight for your health. I hope your recovery goes wonderfully smooth :)

If nothing else, this whole situation serves as a reminder that disabilities affect people across a lot of demographics, and you can't assume anything about someone's health or pain levels just by looking at them.

24 Memes That Will Only Be Funny If You're Married.

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Anyone who has worked in law enforcement for an extended amount of time is bound to have a slew of stories. As with any job, situations that sound nerve-wracking to the rest of us become par for the course once you've experienced it enough.

However, there are some stories that are so inexplicable and creepy that even world-weary cops feel haunted by the memories.

In a popular Reddit thread, people who have worked in law enforcement and similar jobs shared the weirdest stories from the job, and you don't want to read these before bed.

1. Rob_using_Reddit still doesn't know what was happening with that woman.

I have posted this before but here is my possessed woman story, spoiler alert - as a result of posting this last time users suggested she could have suffered from Catatonic schizophrenia.

Was driving along and found a girl just standing in the middle of the road, my initial thoughts was to just to tell her to pay attention but it was clear that while the lights were on, nobody was home. During my whole time with her she never uttered a word, I was left in a weird situation. She had done nothing, clearly needed help but medically nothing seemed wrong. As I am pondering what on earth I should do the girl suddenly starts spinning.

Now spinning is not illegal and I'm starting to think this girl is one of those protesters that wind up police (I've dealt with troll station before) so I think crack on, spin to your hearts content. Then she loses her balance and falls whacking her head on the side of the police car! Great. So I call an ambulance but she seems fine. Still not talking but she is looking up at the sky. It's a nice day so fine enjoy the sun.

I do some writing and look back at her now bright red face and watering eyes and realize she is trying to damage her retinas by forcing herself to look directly at the sun. That's a new one on me so now I'm holding a book or something above her to shield her eyes... ambulance arrives and we get to hospital and now she has forgotten how to walk. Now I'm 99% sure she is a wind up merchant but I get her a wheelchair. In the wheelchair she strikes up a 'I'm a little teapot pose' and keeps this up for the next hour, zero movement just frozen with her arms out. So I now have 3 potential situations.

she is pretending to be frozen in time.

she is suffering from a mental health issue.

she has been possessed.

By now I'm convinced it's the latter but I section her and leave her with professionals. A week later I call the hospital and they tell me she is still frozen.

2. GrapeJuice89 is pretty sure they saw a ghost.

My brother is a deputy and at the time I worked as an EMT for a few small towns in north east Colorado. I frequently went on ride alongs with him while waiting for 9/11 calls to come in. This took place in Amherst Colorado. The town is very small, Amherst has about 50 people, a church, some houses, a grain tower, and a park. It was about 3 am and we were about to call it a night.

As we were making our last check on Amherst we noticed movement at the park but couldn’t tell exactly what was going on because it was pitch black. We drove up and stopped along side the dirt road, flipped on the spotlight and as we moved the light around the park it finally settled on the back of a young girl (maybe 13) sitting on a swing with her back facing us. We left the spotlight on her, she wasn’t moving, she just sat there facing away from us looking down at the ground. Needless to say it was a very creepy situation.

We both looked at each other with that face you would make when something is out of the ordinary. I quickly suggested that we should call her over using the PA system. He agreed. As we looked back over, she was gone. I mean no signs of anyone anywhere. The park was in a wide open area, she couldn’t have gotten out of sight in the amount of time that we had our exchange of words. I remember saying, “should we get out and look for her?” Maybe she hid behind one of the park toys or something. My brother just looked at me and said “hell to the no” and drove away. It still creeps me out to this day.

3. AnxietyDepressedFun's uncle had to investigate fairies.

Obligatory - Not my story but my uncle's.

Years ago my uncle told us about a woman who would call the police station just about every night claiming that "fairies or elves" were breaking into her house & stealing her food. As is custom, every time she calls, they send a unit to check on her (my uncle gets it about 2-3 times per week). Every night they stop by her house & reassure her that no one has broken in & calm her down.

One night when he gets to the house she has poured powdered sugar all over the floor to "record their tracks" & my uncle says he literally has to do a double take. All over the floor of her kitchen are these little tracks, tiny like nothing he's seen before. His partner starts taking photos & trying to figure it out. A few other officers come in, as most of them had gotten the call to her house too & want to see it. 10 police officers all completely baffled as to what these weird little prints are...

Turns out a possum had babies & they were sneaking into her kitchen for warmth or food. The prints looked so foreign because most of the time baby possums are carried by their mother not running around. 7 are rounded up & released in a less residential area.

4. Yahspetsnaz was creeped out by the dolls.

Crazy old woman called because she heard someone repeatedly banging on her front door and and garage door. It's after midnight and I get there, and the house is in the middle of the woods with nothing around for miles. I talk to the lady and she insists I check her large shed out back. So I open the shed door and peek in with my flashlight, and the entire shed is filled with creepy large homemade dolls. They're each probably like 2 to 3 feet tall and sitting upright facing the door. The hair on my neck went up for a minute. I didn't truly believe that something supernatural was going on, but dolls are just really fucking creepy.

5. 9oreos's dad barely missed the angel.

It's probably too late for this to surface, but this is my dad's story.

He went to a call where a father had gone crazy and decided to shoot his family. He killed his wife and was looking around trying to find his 5 year old son to shoot him. The boy had run outside and was trying to hide on the side of the house behind the trash cans. The father eventually found him and point blank emptied nearly a full magazine at the boy.

When my dad arrived, they found the boy in shock, hiding right where his dad found him, not a wound on his body. There were bullet holes in the side of the house all around the boy. When they finally got to question him about it, they asked him what happened when his dad found him on the side of the yard. The boy replied "the angel was in front of me with a shield, and he saved me. He pushed the gun away from me."

6. RustDeathTaxes's dad worked at a legendary ghosthunters spot.

I'm a second generation firefighter. My father spent the latter days of his career as a fire safety director at a massive mental asylum. Our state version of OSHA has to come and do inspections at all facilities. His was no exception so the OSHA inspectors make their way to an abandoned part of the facility that used to house the criminally insane. The absolute worst of the worst. Serial killers, rapists, cannibals, etc. My father left them with keys and a flashlight because the electricity didn't work.

The inspectors were radioing back to my father that they kept hearing talking and footsteps which was impossible. Not even squatters could move around because each section is isolated with locked doors to prevent escape. Eventually, the inspectors give up and actually flee without finishing. My dad decides to stick around and check the alarm boxes they didn't.

As he is checking one of the alarms, he feels as if someone is watching him from down the hall. As he looks, a shadow forms with a head, shoulders, torso but no legs and just two holes where there should be eyes. My dad noped the hell on out of there.

Since the hospital has shut down, it has been on Ghost Adventures, Ghost Hunters and a myriad of other shows and movies. My dad has been in some of them. Jason from Ghost Hunters called it the scariest place he's ever investigated.

7. landy0034 still doesn't know where the shadow figures came from.

Cop. Real call. I have been on patrol for several years, and love stuff like this. I had a back up officer with me, who witnessed everything.

Dispatch sent me to a call in a mountain area late one night. Dispatch said the caller reported several people holding a baby above their heads, and chanting, while standing on her property. The call sounded ridiculous and I smirked as dispatch gave the details. I arrived at the proper address after driving about 20 minutes along a mountain road. There is not much else up here, and it was extremely quiet. No one walks around out here, and there arent very many cars driving this late. I walked along a gated driveway, through a light wooded area. I found the callers house, with two dim lights near the front door. The house was surrounded on three sides by heavy woods. I felt a little uneasy, just looking at the house.

I knocked on the front door of the house, while standing on a large patio. I heard something move to my left, which startled me because it was close. It sounded like a person, something big. I looked to the left and used my flashlight to light up the patio....I didnt see anyone.

I continued to knock. I could hear two voices inside the house. I clearly heard a male and a female. This made me feel a little better. I thought I heard someone on the patio, but it must have been someone inside.

The female eventually opened the door. She was terrified, almost crying. She asked me to come inside and to close the door. She led me to the living room, where I saw a very cheap security monitor, almost like a baby monitor camera setup, with audio and video playing. The camera setup only provided live feed. The camera was positioned to view the front door and patio area where I was just standing. The audio was silent as I watched the monitor for a few seconds.

The woman began to explain, when I interrupted, and asked where the male was inside the house (I heard his voice). She looked confused and said she was here alone. I was suprised because I know for a fact I heard a males voice when I knocked. I asked her several times, and initially thought she was lying to me. My partner checked the house and did not find anyone.

The woman said she was reading while sitting on the couch, when she heard something over the security camera. She looked at the display and saw two people on the patio, standing at the front door.

She heard knocking at the door and called the police. I looked at the monitor, and although it was low quality, I could see the patio and front door area with decent clarity. As the woman continued to explain, the audio on the monitor went from quiet to extremely loud. We all stop talking. The caller was shaking. I looked at the monitor, but didnt see anyone. Loud audio continued to blast from the speakers. The audio sounded like wind.....but it was not windy that night. I asked the woman "what is that?", and she said she said "its them." I looked at my partner who was nervous.

The woman gives me her cell phone, stating she took pictures of the monitor, showing the two people on her patio. I looked through several low quality pics and didnt see anything. I continue to scroll, and sure enough, I see what looks like two tall figures standing at the door. One of the figures is holding something. The figures looked strange, all dark and featurless, in contrast to the video I saw on the monitor.

I was in disbelief, and thought "oh my god, shes telling the truth."

I continue to scroll and saw one figure holding something up over its head. Another picture showed the item at the base of the door with both figures standing near it. I tried to reason, to explain what could have caused these images.....but it was pretty apparent that there had been two subjects on her patio.

We check outside, walking the property to the tree line. I mention the movement on the patio, and the males voice from inside the house. My partner asks me to stop talking about it. We finish checking and return to speak with the caller. She says she will be driving into town and staying at a hotel because she is too scared to stay here tonight.

We walk along the driveway back to our cars.....my partner jumps into the patrol car and takes off. I laughed, but I felt really uneasy, standing there in the dark. I leave shortly afterward.

9. sccrj888 thought the man was dead.

Cop here.

Partner and I were dispatched to a welfare check. Elderly guy, nobody had seen him in a few days, mail over flowing in mailbox, missed a doctor's appointment, car hasn't moved, etc. We both know we are about to find a body. We arrive on scene and can't get anyone to the door, look through the window and sure enough, we can see his foot on the floor in the living room. My partner is a corporal and pulls rank and makes me go first. Door is unlocked and as soon as we open it we smell a mostly fresh dead body. Almost relieved, we both enter and he tells me to check vitals on dead dude.

He is obviously dead, with lividity, dried feces on him and dried saliva around his mouth. So I go to stand over him and see if I can get a pulse at which point he takes a deep breath, rolls over, and asks why we are in his house. At this point we both start screaming oh shits and what the fucks as we both run out of the house. We called ems and they transported him. Said they couldn't get a blood pressure or pulse on him. I think he died a week later in the hospital. I still get jokes about raising the dead.

10. matsumima will never forget the haunted driver.

Not sure if you guys would want to hear an asian story but I thought it’s worth sharing. This was told by my dad when I was 12. Even now, when I ask him about the story, he can remember every vivid detail like it just happened last week.

My dad was in the police force for 20 years and when we just a rookie, he had to conduct nighttime roadblocks meant to catch drunk-drivers.

They had done it many times before and this night started routine enough for them. That was until this Toyota Corolla drove up to them with what looked like a white blanket on its roof, flapping in the wind.

They thought it was weird but did not see anything amiss about it. One of them even joked that this guy was multitasking by drying his laundry and driving home at the same time.

The laughs stopped when the lone car came closer and all of them saw what looked like a woman in white lying face down on top of the car. The woman seemed to slide like a slug backwards until she disappeared behind the car as it eventually came to a stop in front of them.

It took a few minutes for my dad’s team to re-compose themselves as they stared at each other as if to say “you guys saw that right?”.

The most senior of them finally stepped up and shot the usual questions to the driver. There was a noticeable quiver in his voice as he made conversation and asked him to step out of the vehicle. My dad’s team inspected the whole vehicle, including the boot and found nothing strange in it.

The driver was a good-looking Staff Sergeant in the army who was heading home from a company event earlier that night and admitted to have had a few cans of beer. He said he laid down in his bunk to sleep it off, hence why he was driving home at that time (it was 4am).

He passed their sobriety test and they started to ask him if he saw anything weird during his drive. Initially he said no but after more questioning, he mentioned that he had to swerve to avoid what looked like a bird that was flying upside down. It was spooky but didn't think that was a detail worth sharing with police officers.

The senior then told the guy to chill out at a 24-hour coffeeshop before heading home (the locals believe that if a malevolent spirit follows you, making a pitstop confuses them so they can’t set up shop in your house). After some confusion of his own, the driver finally caught on and nodded in agreement.

After the guy leaves, they call in to the station and cut the night short. Never knew what happened to the driver, hope he’s alright.

11. jbizzlern is glad they haven't seen the girl in the yellow dress.

ICU Nurse here.

We had a patient that was dying. No family. Around 3am the guy started crying and asking why the little girl in the yellow dress was in the hospital. We assure him there is no little girl. He cries even more saying yes there is she is at the foot of the bed. Kid you not the man passed in the next few minutes. Myself and my pod partner blame the hallucination on the meds we were giving him to keep him comfortable.

Next night. New patient in the room. She’s completely alert and oriented. About 3 am she hits her call light. She wants to know why the little girl in the yellow dress was outside her room. We told her it was just her imagination from being in a strange place. Not 5 minutes later the guy in the next room goes into full cardiac arrest and unfortunately we can’t receive him.

Of course we absolutely freak. Two different nights. Two different patients see the same thing. All followed by death.

12. LiesBuried doesn't know how the boy traveled like that.

So this actually happened to a friend of mine who isn't the cop in this story but is the actually family.

So this happened maybe about 5 years ago. My friend is in his mid 30s he and his wife had a 7 month old baby and a 5 year old son. Wife was a stay at home mom and dad owned his own business and had a very flexible schedule he would take his son to school in the morning pick him up etc.

So it's about 11am they call the cops because they keep hearing a a strange sound in the home sound like feet or something and though he was sure it was nothing he wanted to make sure.

So he says the cop arrives and the first thing the cop says is "Why isn't your son in school"

My friend is puzzled and says "huh".

The cop says "Your boy is sitting outside on your lawn".

My friend again looks at the cop strange, looks on the lawn and says "Officer my son is in school, I dropped him off this morning"

The officer looks back sees nothing and looks puzzled.

At this moment my friends cell phone rings and it's his son's school. Apparently he has had some sort of allergic reaction to some finger paints that had egg base or something in it (allergic to eggs) and became extremely swollen, throat swollen and couldn't breathe rushed to the hospital.

The cops give them an escort to the hospital so they can fly through lights and all.

Arrive at hospital and the son is doing fine is stable got the lil shot to help him and everything. The cop waits to see how the family is doing and wants to check on the kid.

My friend is appreciative and let's the cop come up and he says that he had never seen a paler face in his life and he said the cop looked as if he had seen a ghost. And said "That's the kid I saw in your yard"

My friend told me this it creeped me the fuck out I didn't believe it but the wife cosigned the whole thing.

TL:DR- Cop came to friend house investigating foot sounds. Cop saw a kid in the yard, my friend son was in school, friend gets call that son is in hospital for anaphylaxis, cop goes to hospital says the kid he saw in the yard was in fact my friends kid.

13. defnotacop doesn't want to return to that basement.

I was dispatched around 3am to attend a house where the caller was concerned that someone had broken into the basement and was still inside. The caller was a very old lady and she lived alone. As far as she could tell, she woke up and noticed that the basement lights were on, and she hadn’t been downstairs in years.

My partner and I get to the call and the lady is standing at the front door with her walker anxiously waiting for us to come inside. My partner and I go into the basement and you can tell that no one had been down there for a while because as I walked I kept hitting cobwebs that were dangling from the ceiling. Anyway, everything appeared to be in order, and eventually I found the light switch further into the basement and turn it off. We shut the basement door behind us and clear the main floor too, since she was so adamant that she heard rustling and coughing in the basement (the basement was relatively empty, and I assure you no one was down there).

As we are about to leave she asks if we turned the light off. I said yes, and opened the door to show her, but the light was back on when I did. I kept my composure and asked her if I could turn the lights on/off from upstairs as well. Negative. My partner and I exchanged looks and I went back down to turn the lights off again, and gtfo. We met up after the call and dug a little bit into the history of the house, and it turned out that a year ago on that day we attended to help paramedics because her husband had fallen down those stairs. Not sure if he made it or not but... nope.

14. Bow_Ties_R_Cool is still haunted by Tiberius.

I worked as a forensic nurse in a lock up unit in the hospital once with state and county inmates. Had one older/demented lady who swore she was being haunted/abused by a demon she would call Tiberius. So many crazy things happened whenever she was there - like we’d go into the room, do normal care, leave and seconds later she’d start screaming bloody murder and we’d run into the room to find her looking like she’d been in a fight with a boxing champ - bloody lip, black eye, markings all over her body - no one ever saw her doing this stuff to herself.

Things would get moved around the room by themselves - like at one point she was in protective restraints because the doc thought she was hurting herself, there was no way she could have moved or done anything to herself while in these restraints, but new marks would always appear or her tray/cart would be across the room. The room was secure so there was no way someone else was doing this. You’d ask her questions and she’d just say “it was Tiberius.” After she was discharged we always had trouble with that room - if there was going to be a rapid response or code, it happened in that room. One of the guards reporting that lights were going on and off in a room? It was that one.

15. canaryblu hated that one room.

I am a CNA in a local hospital. One of my patients just had a quad bypass (open heart surgery) and I went into check her vitals. The room was dim and the hall was quiet. I’m looking at her and in the corner of my eye I see something drop from the ceiling out of nowhere. It makes a big clunk sound and I turn to see what it could be. There’s nothing there. At that moment my patient looks up at me and say “my dads here.” Passes back out... I finish my job and leave. When I would go to that floor again as a floater I would hate to go into that room.

16. jeep_devil_1775 knows which house to nope away from.

I work in a pre civil war town that has lots of antebellum homes that survived the war. Ghost hunters have been to the town on several occasions. There is this one antebellum mansion that is more of a museum, that gets alarm calls semi frequently. Every time, the side door to the house is open and the kitchen has all cabinet doors and drawers open. Every. fucking. time. The care taker says its been happening since she started looking after the place about 30 years ago. We don’t clear it without backup.

17. darthsantaclaus27's dad saw the ghosts of Native American people.

My dad used to work as a CO (corrections officer) at a rural prison. He drove perimeter, which just means he made circles around the jail in a truck, checking empty buildings for runaway inmates and just generally being bored for eight hours every night.

One night, my dad is parked on a hill just reading a magazine when he starts to feel a thumping in his body. He described it as the feeling you get when speakers are playing a song with really heavy bass and you can feel the bass in your whole body.

Anyway, he puts the magazine down and checks his rearview, and he sees someone outside the truck. He grabs his pistol and jumps out of the truck, weapon drawn. When he gets outside, he sees a procession of Native Americans walking through the truck (and directly through his seat) only to disappear at the exact spot he was sitting. He said it was clear they were ghosts because many of them appeared injured. This went on for a few seconds, and then whole procession disappeared.

He called the other perimeter guy on his walkie to try to explain, and the other guy almost immediately stopped communicating. Turns out the other guy had seen this happen before, but didn't believe in ghosts, so he wouldn't talk about it.

18. SACDINmessage used the Lord's Prayer.

I was a patrol officer in a large west coast city for a short period a little while back.

The city I worked for had (and continues to have) a problematic influx of transients. The first thing you learn when dealing with homeless populations is that mental health problems and drug use are overwhelmingly abundant. By the end of my stint I felt more like an armed social worker than a police officer, and that’s one of the reasons I left.

I’ve always been a horror movie buff. After The Conjuring debuted I bought a copy of The Demonologist, the biography of Ed and Lorraine Warren. Ed recounts meeting a homeless man in NYC who spoke as if possessed (p.219) and goes on to say that prolonged cases of mental anguish can lead to influence from other worldly beings.

I’m not sure if I believe that, but I always kept it in the back of my mind. I do know certain chemical substances (DMT, MDMA, psilocybin) can make the user “see” or “feel” the presence of spiritual entities. So many homeless people have drug addiction problems I wouldn’t be surprised that, if these kinds of entities are real, they wouldn’t find ways to mess with people.

One night, on patrol in a two man car, I was flagged down by a disheveled man standing next to a Winnebago. He told me a women he didn’t know was inside with his son and wouldn’t leave. After alerting dispatch my FTO and I knocked on the door and asked if we could come in. The son said yes, and I stepped inside. The woman looked slightly less disheveled than the son, but I could tell she was either on something or mentally ill. The son was lying very still on a cot, looking absolutely terrified. The woman was quietly mumbling something and fidgeting with empty hands. After trying (and failing) to converse with her she quickly ran out of the Winnebago.

Neither the complainant nor the son wanted to file a report, and simply asked us to keep an eye on the area. I agreed, walked back to my car, and slowly drove away. About a block down the road I saw the woman walking slowly and decided to pull up and try to talk to her again.

I’m in the driver’s seat and my FTO is riding shotgun. We pull up, he rolls down his window, and asks for her name. She says it’s Rachel, and begins to mumble louder and faster. The fidgeting intensifies, and the only intelligible thing she says is that she’s “always searching”. My FTO calmly and patiently asks her the basic questions (where do you live, do you know how to get home, are you hurt or in danger, etc), but isn’t getting anywhere.

At this point I start to feel a little creeped out, but haven’t said anything. Something in her eyes told me this is all wrong. Rachel continues to mumble and fidget, but is looking down at her hands. I decide to run a little experiment (because I might not get the chance to do so again) and began mouthing the Lord’s Prayer. I’m not actually saying anything, just thinking it and moving my lips. The whole time I continue staring at Rachel to make sure she wasn’t looking at me, which she wasn’t, and to make any reaction even more unlikely I said the prayer in old English (like Beowulf old English). That way, even if she glances up at me, it’s highly unlikely she’ll understand what I’m doing.

I finish the part which says “deliver us from evil” and Rachel stops mumbling. She jerks her head up, her eyes go wide, and she glares at me for the longest second I’ve ever felt before sprinting down the street and into an alley.

Now I don’t know if that’s necessarily anything supernatural, but it sure as hell creeped me out for the next few days.

19. Hollywood7's new tenants helped Brant cross over.

Not a cop but leasing agent.. We deal w a surprisingly high amount of deaths.

Brant was my worst suicide and most creepy. I'll.never forget him and he made sure of that.

Brant was a weird resident but nice. Always chatted with me but you could tell was hurting from his ptsd. Around Christmas his packages sat too long in the office for pick up but I figured he was on vacation. Shortly after new years his parents called and asked to talk to me directly. Manager hands me the phone and they tell me they haven't been able to get ahold of him for weeks (they live out of state). I tell them to call PD (were not allowed due to privacy laws) and I grab my keys and head to his apt. His dog Rocky is barking, I check the front door and it cracks open, the smell hit my face like a ton of bricks. He's dead and has been dead. Police arrive. Brant shot himself and sat for ten days. I had to ID him before they called his family. Rocky started to eat him due to going so long w out food.

The residents above/on the side/ behind him noped out and we let them go. At this point I think I'm losing my shit bc I keep seeing Brant out of the corner of my eye at work. Only at work. Sometimes I would see him walk by the office windows and I would yell for my manager, who believed me thankfully, but could never see him.

About a month after we get his place cleaned up and turned over the apartments around his a pair of little Korean sisters move in next door. The apt shares a wall with his bedroom. At this point no one in that area knows what happened and bc of Brant being a shut in no one knew him or who he was.

Cookie (one of the sisters) comes in and asks me one day if someone died in their apt. I tell her no. She says a man is around her apt and is distraught about not being able to cross over. At this point I ask her if she's seen him and she describes Brant. I tell her about what happened and she assures me she'll do a cross over ceremony for him that evening and also gave me a bit of sage later that day.

I never saw or felt Brant again after that night.

20. moby323 doesn't know what happened with that patient.

I’m a P.A. and did a phlebotomy rotation.

I followed a phlebotomist around and we had to draw blood from a patient late at night (I think it was like 4am).

Anyway we walk into the room and it’s dark and then we realize the bed is empty. I took a peek in the bathroom, also empty. We were confused and started to leave when the door swung back.

Standing behind the door was the patient, like an 80 year old naked woman with white hair down to her waist looking at us with pure hatred in her eyes.

We almost had a heart attack, but the phlebotomist got it together enough to say, “Mrs. Jones, we are here to draw some blood, is that ok?”

Patient says in what sounded like barely controlled rage, “No. Get out. NOW.”

We noped the fuck out of there and told the nurse. Nurse told us when she walked in the room like 3 minutes later the patient was dressed and sound asleep.

People on Twitter are sharing the worst dates they've ever been on.

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"Dating is hard" is a cliche for a reason. Not only do you have to leave the comfort of your own home, wash your hair, and strap on a pair of high-wasted pants to wrangle your Dorito-bloat, but you never know exactly who's going to end up sitting across the table from you. People are full of surprises—especially when you meet them online. Dating is hell, but at the very least, it can make for some pretty wild stories.

Composer Nick Harvey recently asked Twitter to share their worst dates.

His question triggered an overwhelming number of responses from people whose experiences will put your own dating history in perspective. Here's 27 of the best of the worst:

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Guy won't donate sperm to 'poor' sister-in-law unless she gets bigger house and converts to his religion.

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Dealing with sperm can be tough, and dealing without sperm can be even tougher.

An "Am I The A**hole?" post on Reddit called "AITA for blowing up at my husband's brother for how he declined donating sperm to us?" has all the makings of a soap opera...or a psychological thriller.

It all started when the woman's husband was diagnosed with azoospermia, which means "no sperm." The couple began researching donors, and the husband is "only comfortable with it if it comes from his brother." The woman describes her brother-in-law Eric as "smarmy and self-important, but not a bad person."

They asked him for sperm, and here's where things get messy:

He sent a very detailed email in which he went into excruciating detail of all the reasons he felt we wouldn't be good parents, and what we'd "need to change" before he would "give us" a child. At the risk of making this post as long as the email itself, there were two main points.

1. He didn't feel that our income was high enough. He demanded to see financial records. He wanted to see his brother more advanced/settled in a career, and wanted to know my career trajectory as well. Both of us have been in the same companies for 5+ years, and don't have dead end jobs. He also wanted us in a house and not an apartment.

2. He felt that I and his brother needed to get therapy for "being different". Along this line, he wanted his brother to "act more normal". We would also need to convert and follow their family's religion and "not be a heathen."

Eric didn't simply respond with a "no, sorry, I'm not comfortable with the arrangement." He insulted the couple by telling them why and how they'd be terrible parents, called them too poor to breed, and insisted that they convert to his religion.

The woman, understandably, "blew up" at Eric:

I was furious when I received this. HE COULD HAVE JUST SAID NO. That he acted like the sole way for us to have children and like he could control our lives is ridiculous. I don't want to adopt BECAUSE I don't want to have a third party telling me what my standards are. I'd rather be childless. I called him, screamed at him for the horrifying email, and said I wouldn't want his goods if he was the last person on earth. My husband is urging me to consider his terms, which I'm not interested in. Am I in the wrong here?

Hmm. There's a lot for the "Am I The A**hole?" jury to consider.

On the one hand, Eric insulted his brother and sister-in-law and demanded he exercise control over their parenting (and living arrangements!). On the other hand, the woman was upset by that.

alessalevan said, "duh, Eric is the a-hole here":

If I was in your position I would absolutely never have contact with this person again. He could have just said no. What he asked for was disgusting.

kittenoftheeast, with a long decision, argues that "Everyone Sucks Here":

ESH. Brother sounds like a jerk. However: this is different from him donating sperm in college. This kid would be his niece/nephew and he would be involved in their life. His demands may be over the top, but you (and your husband gave him that leverage: he's the ONLY donor your husband would consider?). If he's like this now, he's only going to be worse if you have a kid this way. But you blowing up at him was not exactly winning either. The fact that your husband feels this way too suggests you didn't help things. The brother's conditions (like the family religion) may be a sign these things are a bigger concern in the family than you realise.

Other commenters urged the woman to be patient with her husband after the azoospermia diagnosis; he's clearly going through a rough time. Others are shocked that the husband would even begin to consider Eric's terms.

I hope this couple finds another donor. Parenting is difficult enough without being held hostage or converted to a cult.

Man asks if it's okay he called vegetarian wife 'annoying' for refusing to share a spoon.

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"Wanna spoon?" is usually a nice thing to hear from your spouse, but not this time.

A married couple is currently embroiled in a feud over a meaty spoon, and the man has asked the people of Reddit for help, since they're always so objective about vegan relationship disputes!

The guy, known as Sharkeyandgeorge, is a meat-eater while his wife of 12 years is a newly minted vegetarian — she cut meat out six months ago. She refused to use a spoon that had touched his meat pie (heh) and now he's wondering if he overreacted by calling her an annoying hypocrite.

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She is doing it [eating vegetarian] because she didnt want to be a part of the factory farming industry, again I totally support this, however her recent behavior has really started to annoy me and tonight I told her so.

Open communication is important, but "you're starting to annoy me" is perhaps not the most mature thing to tell your spouse? He goes on:

I do all the shopping and the cooking and have went to great lengths to accommodate her new diet however I feel she has started she has started to get weird about it. Tonight I cooked 2 separate pies and when she served herself she stopped and asked me if the serving spoon had been used on my meat pie because if it did she didnt want to use it, now at this point my pie crust was unbroken the only thing the spoon could have possibly touched was the pastry crust but she didnt want to use the spoon if it had touched even that.

Okay, that does sound a little nuts. Tell us more, Sharkeyandgeorge:

Cue me telling her this was annoying me and us fighting. She still wears leather shoes, leather handbag, eats dairy and seafood, bringing this up did not help.

Am I the a**hole?.

Can't believe adding hypocrisy onto your list of misdeeds against your wife didn't help. Okay, let's see what the Reddit refs have to say.

User lil_ginge pointed out that if there's no health reason for her to be veg, cross-contamination is simply not an issue:

I fully support vegans and vegetarians. I even make an effort to eat meatless meals when possible. However, it makes no sense for her to be strange about “cross-contamination” when her diet is choice-based and not health-based.

People with gluten allergies, for example, actually have to worry about this:

If someone had Celiac’s disease, for example, they should worry about if a utensil has been used already. But in your wife’s case, her diet is a preference and, regardless of any meat particles that might infiltrate her general area, the net amount of meat consumed is still decreased from her choosing not to purchase meat.

But Pinglenook pointed out that after not eating meat or fish for a while, the smell or taste of it can be grody to the max, so it makes sense to avoid cross-contamination:

A lot of vegetarians are particular about "cross contamination" and while it doesn't rationally make sense from the perspective of no animals being hurt for the spoon, it is an understandable gut-based reaction. If someone was eating a dish containing human flesh, you probably wouldn't want to use the same spoon that they touched their cannibalism pie with. Not saying that eating meat is like cannibalism, but for a lot of vegetarians the whole idea of eating meat just feels icky after a while. (I'm not a vegetarian myself, if that matters for the interpretation of my comment)

RileyW2k confirmed, because let's be real, a meaty spoon is gonna taste like meat:

I'm Vegetarian by choice too, and I wouldn't want to use the same utensils that where also used to serve meat.

That being said, the pie with the meat hadn't even been cut yet, there was no chance for cross-contamination.

Still, as many pointed out, the spoon had allegedly not even touched the meat yet. Plus if she's still eating fish, she's not a vegetarian! As Lukestr said:

The fishing industry is just as bad as the farming industry, OP’s wife is picking and choosing her battles and being shitty about it.

Dar2de pointed out she can make her own dang meals if she's soooo concerned about cross-contamination:

If she's getting picky, or worried about cross contamination, she should start making her own food rather than putting that onus on you. It sounds like you've been pretty supportive of her choices here so far, and have gone to great lengths to essentially always make two separate dishes. Get her to make her own food if she is going to require this and tbh it may make you closer, as cooking together can be a good way to connect and enjoyable if both want it to be.

And darklingplarnter pointed out that everyone kinda sucks in this scenario:

Yeah the spoon touching crust thing is some dumb bullsh*t. But guilting her about being pescetarian and wearing leather wasn't really fair. She's could still be helping her social cause even if she puts limitations on it.

Finally, Cawcawyo pointed out the elephant in the room: this marriage seems miserable.

Every little bit helps. People are way too quick to scream hypocrisy in cases like this one. She's making a deliberate choice to give up meat? Good on her. The carbon emissions from beef and pork are astronomical.

I say all this as someone who eats meat exactly once a month. You do what you can.

My first thought was that she's being totally ridiculous.

My second thought was that this isn't about a spoon.

Are you sure she's not mad about something else entirely?

I'm going ESH only because it sounds like there's some mutual hostility here and neither party is trying to get to the bottom of it.

So it looks like in the case of the meaty spoon, the verdict is: everybody needs to chill.

Photos capture moment woman sees drug baggie stuck to phone in front of mom and dad.

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In the Renaissance, they had the Sistine Chapel. And in 2019, we've got this tweet.

A photo series that's currently going viral captures the moment a woman sees a baggie of cocaine stuck to a smartphone, while her friend snaps a photo of her and her parents.

If it sounds complicated that's because, like all great art, it kind of is. Let's break it down:

First we've got the woman in the red dress, who's apparently celebrating her 21st birthday, posing with a collection of middle-aged people we can assume are her parents and/or older family members.

Then we've got her friend in a green dress who's snapping the photo, holding an iPhone that has a very obvious bag of what appears to be hard drugs stuck to it.

A photo of the family shows them posing; a photo of the friend shows the yay; and a third photo shows the birthday girl's "oh sh*t" moment.

Put together, it makes for a truly dynamic piece of internet content, and Twitter and Reddit are responding accordingly.

The identity of the people in the photo still isn't known. On Twitter, it's being assumed that the phone (and therefore the attached bag of the devil's dandruff) belong to the girl posing for the photo. On Reddit, people are sure the Colombian marching powder belongs to the girl with the phone.

Either way, people are stunned by this particular triptych's narrative and emotional story arc, and they're dissecting the major players' facial expressions and potential roles in the melodrama.

There's the apparent dad, whose face is frozen in the familiar rictus of a disappointed patriarch.

And the birthday girl, who's no doubt wondering if mom and dad are going to revoke all her birthday presents or just a few.

Some are suggesting potential excuses for the baggie.

And of course we've got cocaine puns!

Not to mention advice.

And this inconvenient truth:

Hopefully, someone will solve the mystery of who owns the shneef and whether the birthday girl got in trouble for its presence at her party. Maybe they can all go on "Ellen"! But in the meantime, always remember: drugs are not the answer!

23 Memes To Help You Start Your Morning Off With A Giggle.

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“If we couldn't laugh we would all go insane.”
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Good morning people of the internet. Before the day's challenges drive you completely insane, take a little time to laugh this morning. These memes are sure to make even the grumpiest among us giggle.

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Cheer yourself up by laughing at these hilarious memes, then cheer someone else up by sharing them. It's a win-win situation.

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People whose lives were changed by taking a DNA test share their stories.

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Learning about your family history can be a life-altering experience that might offer insight into why you are the way you are, which explains the rising popularity of DNA tests like 23andMe and Ancestry .com. When Lizzo took a DNA test, she learned that she's 100% "that b*tch" and it changed the course of history. Other people whose lives were radically changed or up-ended by a DNA test are sharing their stories in a Reddit thread.

Here are 21 stories of people who took a DNA test and it turned out they were not 100% who they thought they were:

1.) From schmooby:

I ordered one of the earlier versions of 23andMe back in 2013. Looked through some fun generic traits and ancestral history, then forgot about it for a few years.

Until one day in 2017 when I received an email that a close relative was discovered. The connection listed them as a first cousin, which was weird because I thought that I had no immediate cousins and no one in my family recognized the name. A few months later, another one was added and finally a third a couple of months after that.

Turns out my uncle has multiple illegitimate children and they all took DNA tests around the same time. All three of them found out that he was their dad thanks to my initial result connecting them and working together to compare family history. They're older (30s to 40s) so it's more of a peace of mind at this point in their lives, but I'm glad that they were able to find their real dad through the experience.

2.) ​​​​​From Sully1102:

My life wasn’t changed, but I was contacted by someone on 23andMe wondering how we were connected since he thought he knew all his second cousins in the area.

I recognized the surname as that of my biological grandfather. I answered this man’s question by detailing how my grandfather had gotten my grandmother pregnant out of wedlock, then it turned out he was already married with a family, forcing my father to be put up for adoption.

I guess the guy didn’t like that story and blocked me.

3.) From wombat1800:

I was adopted at birth back in the 1960s. I had a happy childhood but both of my adoptive parents died of cancer in the early 1990s. I sent my DNA in to Ancestry in the hope that I'd make contact with one or both of my birth parents. Literally all I had was my mother's name on the birth certificate and my father's name on a photocopied set of adoption paperwork. When I first checked the result I was disappointed to find only a few third and fourth cousins. I emailed the ones who looked as if they visited the site regularly. It turned out they were all related to my birth father. He had also died sometime in the early 1990s.

Then one day I logged back onto the site and found that I'd matched with a first cousin. I sent a tentative email saying that I'd been given up as a baby and appreciated that it was a sensitive family matter and that if he didn't want to get involved I was fine with that, but could he give me some more information about my family He replied the next day and told me he was my uncle, and that my mother was still alive. She had given birth to me as a teenager, but had reluctantly had to give me up as her family was religous and birth dad was a deadbeat (he sent her a card saying sorry and a £20 note when he heard she'd had me, then married someone else). I made contact with her by email earlier this year. It turns out I have a half brother and sister, as well a nieces and nephews. We are taking things slowly at the moment, but after so many years it's amazing to have a mother again. We have the same likes, dislikes and politics. I'm hoping to meet up with her next year.

4.) From goodnightrose:

My dad and his 2 siblings found out they all have different fathers. One other brother has already passed so we'll never know if there was a 4th baby daddy or not. My dad is a junior and named his son the third after a man who it turns out is no relation. Our last name is an Irish name and we're 0% Irish as his bio father was likely 100% German. My grandmother was a quiet, devout Catholic woman as far as I always knew, so it's been wild finding out she had some major secrets.

5.) From graphenequeen:

My family has been just my mom and I (and our dogs) for a while now. I took one and pretty much got exactly what I expected. My mom took hers and it came back that she wasn't Jewish at all. This was extremely confusing because her father and his family escaped the nazis. Her father was definitely Jewish. She immediately knew he wasn't her father. It was horrible at first. My mom was devastated, as I'm sure you can imagine. She lost part of her identity.

She looked at the part that connects you to people in your family and found someone listed under "close relative" whom she had never heard of. (This person was listed as first cousin for me too.) My mom's parents hadn't spoken to her in decades, so there was no asking them. She reached out to the "close relative" and found out that his parents lived next door to my mom's parents before my mom turned one.

My mom remembered a rumor that one of her cousins told her when she was little: her mom had an affair with the next-door neighbor. Turns out, the next-door neighbor was my mom's real father. He has 3 kids around my mom's age (one is 3 months younger than her), and three kids about 30 years younger. As you can see he got around lol. He passed away a few years back, but the family welcomed us with open arms.

When we met them, it was an instant connection. Like we had been a part of their lives forever. They brought out pictures, and boy does my mom look like her father. They told me that my grandpa would be so proud of me and my accomplishments - some of our interests and talents aligned. They told us we looked like the rest of the family, and we did! We never had that before.

My mom and I went from only having each other, to her having 6 siblings, having nieces and nephews and me having aunts and uncles and tons of cousins and a family reunion to go to each summer. I have family in 5 different states, little cousins to teach, and big cousins to look up to. My mom has a huge family, and so many people to call and talk to and to ask her how she's doing. It's amazing to watch. Weddings, birthday parties, and lots of love.

Funerals too. One of my Uncles passed away, but I got a chance to meet him before he did. I think he was waiting to meet my mom and me. He was an amazing person and even though I didn't know him for long, I loved him.

My family has turned this into the best experience of my life, and my moms too.

6.) From renseigner_enseigner:

Both my partner and I tested positive as Cystic Fibrosis carriers. I don't know the exact chances of this, but its low-- none of our family members have CF. This was after we had our first child (who luckily does not have CF) but has really changed how we feel about any more children.

7.) From RevMen:

My friend did a test to see what her ancestry is recently. She ended up discovering who her dad actually is and learning that her dad is still alive, not dead like her mother said.

So that's something.

8.) From eggiestnerd:

My mom took a DNA test, and she chose the option that allowed her to be connected with family members.

She has a half brother, who was put up for adoption as he was the result of a fling her father had with an old girlfriend. The two were forced to break up because she was heavily religious and teen pregnancy was frowned upon, so she also had to give up the baby. My mother’s side of the family never knew about him before last year. My grandfather also managed to keep the secret for 60+ years, which is kind of impressive.

He’s a pretty cool dude, and he looks and acts almost exactly like my grandfather did. I’m so glad that my mother and him found each other, I couldn’t imagine what it would be like to miss out on growing up with one of your siblings. I’m also happy for him for being able to find his biological family. Turns out he lived 20 minutes away from us for his whole life, and we had no idea. We even went to the same family doctor.

We also ended up helping him find and contact his mother who gave him up, and everything turned out pretty good.

The only downside is, after finding out about the whole thing, his wife got jealous of him spending time with all of his long lost siblings (bitch) and they ended up getting divorced. But he seems happier without her, and he just recently started dating another woman.

9.) From Noctudeit:

I had a very rare cancer as a child. I was always worried that any children I might have would suffer the same fate. When my wife and I got serious about parenthood, I learned that there was a genetic test for the type of cancer I had. I submitted a sample and it came back completely negative for any cancer markers meaning my kids would have essentially no chance of developing the same disease. This was a huge relief, but at the same time it meant that my cancer was completely spontaneous which changed an incredibly rare cancer into an almost impossible cancer. This profoundly illustrated just how little control we humans have over our fate.

10.) From mnmacaro:

I had been searching for my biological father for 10 years. When I took my DNA test and got the results back, I found out A. My bio father was 14 when I was born B. My mom was 20 when I was born C. My father died when he was 24 D. He was murdered by his best friend E. That there was a lifetime original tv series with an episode dedicated to his murder F. That I had a half brother G. My half brother didn’t know the person he called dad his whole life wasn’t his dad

Cue existential crisis

11.) From BatsyyCrazyy:

My entire life I was told I was heavily native american. So much so in fact, my granddad was a Cherokee chief and he gave all of his grand kids native american names. I have 0% native american and I'm mostly Irish and Scandinavian.

12.) From the70sdiscoking:

My life wasn't changed, but it was made a little more complete. Found out, along with my dad, when I was a teenager that my grandpa wasn't my real grandpa. My grandma, who survived her husband back in early 90's, told us late in her life in the mid 2000's that her husband was sterile so she slept with this other guy, let's call him Tom Thompson. My dad had no idea, and was in his late 40's when this news came to us. For 5 years off and on I searched all public records to find any trace of this Tom Thompson and found nothing. My grandma was going senile so although I believe she had an affair, I didn't believe all the info she spewed out about Tom being a war pilot and having done amazing adventures. Did my DNA test just for the hell of it last year and found out that Tom Thompson does exist, and he was a war pilot and everything else she said about him checked out. I'm now connected to my cousins on my dad's side, and it's been really warming to get closer to a family I never knew.

13.) From kaitnip:

My brother and I did 23andMe tests and when we went to compare our results it said he was only my half brother. We thought we were full blood related our whole lives. Turns out, our biological mom (who has since abandoned us and passed away) cheated on my dad and made him believe the baby was his. My dad was 20 at the time and it changed the whole course of his life. He loves my brother as his own but damn

14.) From MadMomma85:

I was adopted, and received a connection to my birth mother's brother through ancestry.com. I was hesitant to reach out because of all the reunion horror stories I've heard throughout my life, but I ended up doing it anyway. My uncle asked me to call him right away, and now I have three siblings who want me in their life, aunts, uncles and gagillion cousins who threw a big welcome home party for me this summer. My birth mom's cousin told me she had been looking for me, but didn't know how to go about it because of her age and lack of ability to use the internet. However, she never told her children I existed - I guess something that generation just didn't do. But anyway, happy story!

15.) ​​​​​​​From speecyspicymeatball:

I bought my ex husband and I 23andme kits for Christmas one year.

I am part black. That was a shocker. I don’t claim it or anything though, I’m Snow White.

He was adopted. All he knew from the adoption agency was that his mother was married at the time he was conceived, but her husband was not his father. My husband was the product of an affair.

It was really neat when his results came back and he saw profiles of third and fourth cousins. First time in his life he ever saw a picture of his blood relatives.

One day he got a new match from someone. It said he was likely her uncle. As it turns out, it was his half sister. As it turns out, his mother had four kids with four different baby daddies. He had two older siblings and one that is ten years younger than him. His mother kept his other siblings but for whatever reason, put him up for adoption.

Also as it turns out, his mother is crazy as a bedbug. He eventually had to block her from calling because she was nuts. His adoptive family wasn’t very good, there was some abuse, but his bio siblings have all told him they think he was the lucky one for having been adopted.

16.) ​​​​​​​From OtheDreamer:

Apparently I have no Native American like I was told growing up, I’m 98% British / Irish, and there’s .1% of Ashkenazi Jew.

The biggest life change came from the realization that I had extra Neanderthal DNA, which gives me the superhuman ability to sneeze less after eating dark chocolate.

17.) ​​​​​​​From SubjectAcorn:

My mom recently found her birth mom from doing a DNA test, so now we know a little bit about our medical history, we have an entire family that we don't know obviously, and my mom knows why she was given up for adoption as a baby.

Edit: also just to add a random tidbit, I said the "now we know medical history" because both my of parents were adopted. My dad has met his birth mom, but we (my dad and siblings and I) are not super close so I don't think we ever found out or asked about his history with his mom and why she gave him up etc. We met her once, but I don't know if he's kept in contact with her and I haven't heard about her in years. Not sure how he found her though, not sure if it was because of a DNA test or not.

18.) ​​​​​​​From SERlTH:

not my ancestry, but my partner found out their great grandfather did not die in war like everyone believed. turns out he started a new family across the ocean and abandoned his home life.

19.) ​​​​​​​From mo0251:

The child wasn't mine, got divorced, became depressed, drug addiction, rehabilitation and now I'm building on a new sober life

20.) From AnonymousKittenss:

So it wasn’t MY DNA test, it was my sister’s.

I had been extremely sick for the past 2 years. Seizures, fainting, migraines, my stomach always bloated, stomach constantly hurt and felt like someone was pushing on it from the inside out, eczema, tiredness, lactose intolerance, hair fell out and grew so slowly, diarrhea, and when I wasn’t having diarrhea, constipation.

I had only told the doctor about the seizure and fainting parts. I was embarrassed about the rest. They tested my heart, did EKG’s, sonograms, blood tests; everything came back fine. So they tried neurological.

I only had about 4 seizures and was mainly fainting, not having seizures. Well, they wanted to know if my fainting was mini seizures so they did an EEG. I had two types of fainting- one was where I felt my blood pressure drop, and another when I had a migraine so painful, my body would just pass out from the pain.

They hooked me up and sleep deprived me to try and trigger one to happen. Well, I got one of my migraines and passed out. Woke up, asked for pain meds since it still hurt so badly, they refused, I ended up passing out again. Well, after that they said on the EEG machine that it’s not seizures and that I’m fine. I could have told them it wasn’t a seizure. I told them it was a completely separate thing. They told me that it was all in my head and to go to a psychiatrist.

After that it was a constant “get a job” “you’re fine! We took you to the doctor and did every test in the world! You’re fine!” “You’re just a fucking hypochondriac!” “It’s all in your fucking head!” From my parents.

The turning point was when I had diarrhea every time I well, farted. And it wasn’t like a slight wet fart, it was like someone turned on a faucet and I couldn’t shut it off. I had to wear diapers for two weeks straight.

I had cut out dairy, so it wasn’t that. I looked up other food intolerances to try and fix this. Gluten came up. Cut out gluten for a month. EVERYTHING felt better, even the fainting and migraines stopped. I was no longer in pain.

My sister showed me her DNA test, and one of the things she had was one of the celiac genes. I had heard Celiac was a form of gluten intolerance. I looked it up. And found out, it wasn’t just an intolerance, it was a full on autoimmune disease. Every symptom fit, people who had the disease and were eating gluten, some had reported fainting, seizures was one of the symptoms because the autoimmune can cause epilepsy.

Went to the doctor to do the blood test, apparently you have to be eating gluten for 12 weeks to get an accurate test. So I went back on. I never realized how bad it had been. My driving was significantly impaired. I got confused easily, forgot where I was. The brain fog was crazy. I couldn’t drive so I stopped and went to a gastroenterologist. He did a surgery where they put a scope down my intestine and take samples as well as a gene test. Came back positive for both genes and had damage to my intestines.

My two year nightmare was over. I can drive now, work, and just, live. And my parents can’t call me a hypochondriac for it anymore.

21.) From Ruby_Fox_:

I grew up being told that my father had died before I was born. When I was 14, my godmother got drunk one night and let it slip that my mom had been lying to me and my father was alive and well and living in another state.

I did some research and tracked him down. He said that he knew about me and had even met me once when I was 6 or 7 and he was a guest at one of my moms parties (I have no recollection of this, my mom had lots of parties and people in and out of her life). He said that he didn’t think that he was my father because it was a one-night stand with my mom, but he would submit to a DNA test to be sure.

This was a long time ago, and I had to go through the family courts to get a paternity test back then, so obviously I had to tell my mom that my godmother had told her secret. My godmother was furious with me and never spoke to me again. She died 8 years later. She was a very wealthy woman with no children or close relatives left. I was originally going to inherit everything, she always told both me and my mother that she was leaving everything to me. She changed her will and left everything to the church instead.

The DNA test did prove that he was in fact my father. We tried to maintain a relationship for a couple of years, but he never really wanted a kid and any effort towards a relationship on his part was half-assed. I haven’t spoken to him since 2006. There was no falling out, or argument during our last conversation, but when I hung up the phone after talking to him that day I just decided that I wasn’t going to initiate our next conversation (like I always had before), I was just going to wait for him to call me. He never has, and my phone number hasn’t changed, his has though (he moved to a different state).

TLDR: Got a DNA test and lost a large inheritance, but gained a deadbeat dad.

Theme park employees share behind-the-scenes secrets they hide from the public.

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Behind every happy child at a theme park is a dozen employees overworked, underpaid, and ready to spill the tea on Reddit. A recent thread asked current and former amusement park employees to share the secrets of the job.

The secrets are literally dirty, featuring poop, piss, and all types of vomit! Here are the juiciest ones.

1. Trogdor_a_Burninator will have you walking around with a giant Minion all day.

The park I worked at the games were easier to win earlier in the day so that people would carry around the giant prizes and entice other people to play.


2. NewbieTwo ruins ball pits for you more than the smell already does.

Don't EVER go in the ball pits. Little kids track all sorts of food and grime into the pit and regularly pee in there since they confuse it for a pool.

The balls are only cleaned once a week, and even then they are just put in a net bag and hosed off. You just keep spraying until the water stops coming off brown. They are then air dried and not sanitized in any way.


3. It's actually good when a ride is stopped, Willow-Whispered says.

Former Six Flags employee, my park is the safest in the country because we call the rides down for rain, for vomit, for lost items (they could be obstructing the track). So if a ride is down, it’s probably not for a mechanical reason. We even pulled an emergency stop while I was being trained on one rollercoaster because a military official lost his military ID and was threatening my boss if we didn’t go get it for him. If people knew how small that issue was they’d be furious that we stopped the ride.


4. Don't be a dick to anyone, especially not jdlikefood or any other Go Kart operator.

I could individually control the speed of your Go Kart, so if you were a dick to me you were going to lose every race you were in.


5. Calvyno was in a sh*tty situation.

About 8 years ago, I managed a whitewater rafting ride (the big donut tubes that can sit 6 people) as a side job while in college. One day, the water filter broke down. The managers kept the ride running for over 2 weeks anyway. The water smelled so bad and turned dark green/brown. The inside of the rafts smelled like a month old porta-potty. We were instructed to tell guests the water filter was broken but the water was clean, which I'm pretty sure was a lie. Thankfully, being a shift leader, I didn't need to go anywhere near the water, but I felt bad for my employees and the guests who rode despite looking obviously disgusted by the smell.


7. Hopefully nobody died on elaxation's watch.

A lot of scary, dangerous rides are operated by stupid teens.

Source: was a stupid 16 year old, learned to operate rides at Six Flags


8. AlwaysAGroomsman differentiates between blood vomit and regular vomit.

Vomit (with no visible blood) is either cleaned up with a sawdust like material to soak up the liquid and then swept into a dustbin or hosed off with a garden hose.

The coaster seat or table is USUALLY not sanitized or anything. So, you are sitting in dried vomit particles.


9. Missat0micb0mbs knows even more vomit intel.

My aunt and uncle work for Disneyworld. Apparently when someone pukes on a ride it’s called in as a "protein spill."


10. It's perfectly legal for ih8pkmn and their coworkers to work 16-hour days.

We don't get paid overtime. We can work anywhere from twelve to sixteen hours a day, and there's a special exception in the US Labor Code that says that theme park employees don't need to be paid overtime if they're a seasonal employee. And it just so happens that theme parks mostly hire seasonal employees! Chew on that for your next visit to a theme park north of the Mason-Dixon line.

Beyond that, here's a tip: if it's a seasonal park, and they're looking to hire, for the love of god, do not apply at the start of the season. They'll tell you that there are more benefits, but if it's at the start of a season, they're understaffed. Which means you work double shifts. An employee in the park collapsed in early May after being on his feet for over ten hours straight.


11. Don't you DARE act like a muggle around ScoobyStank.

I worked in the Wizarding World in Florida over summer of 2012. I remember being told during orientation that we couldn't break character for anyone, ever. We had to act like we lived in Hogsmeade and had no idea about 'muggles way of life'. It sucked because a lot of people I met just wanted a real conversation without the bullshit acting. I also heard some stories from co-workers about how strict it was when the Wizarding World just opened its doors a few years before. Apparently breaking character was something you could be fired over back then.


12. BeastModePwn spilled the tea on raccoon water.

Literal dirty secrets from the theme park I worked at: A dead raccoon was found in the wave pool- they fished it out and people were swimming a few hours later after the park opened. I worked in the buffet and had to empty a new bag of milk into the ice cream machine. It is VERY difficult for a tiny 90lb female to carry and lift a 20lb bag of milk. I somehow did it but the cap of the bag fell into the machine which was now full of milk. I asked a guy cleaning tables for help and he stuck his dirty gloves hand into the milk and retrieved it. I was speechless...and then walked away.


13. Rexticles gave a comprehensive warning from Oklahoma City:

Frontier City in Oklahoma City

Dear lord where do I begin. I'm just gonna do a blow-by-blow

  • Everything in our retail side is marked up by at minimum 600%. We get the cheapest, flimsiest shit that is worth absolutely nothing and sell it.

  • All the games are rigged and the prizes are worth nothing. Mornings is when it's best to play.

  • The carts with flashing light-up toys have a lifespan of 6 hours max and insanely flimsy. We usually have a hard time finding ones that actually work to put on the cart.

  • Employees aren't allowed to eat the food or sit down while working no matter where they are and given one 30 min break per 8 hours. The food we are allowed to eat is outrageously overpriced food you'd find at a gas station. One meal there is more than we make in an hour and a half. There is nowhere to store a packed lunch.

  • We stop rides and pretend they're broken so we can take a break while maintenance walks down to check out our ride.

  • We've had multiple people nearly die at the park, we are told what to write on the police report & if we speak to them directly or the press we are fired and banned for life.

TL;DR - staff are strongly mistreated, underpaid and you're getting tremendously ripped off buying anything.


Parents share how they reacted the first time their kid brought home someone they were dating.

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There comes a time in many parents' lives when their kid will bring their first boyfriend or girlfriend home to "meet the parents" (a less loaded milestone when you're a kid and live at home, but loaded nonetheless). Maybe it happens in elementary school, when "dating" just means holding hands at recess or passing each other love notes. Or maybe it's in high school, when "dating" can mean all kinds of things—some of which are not-so-comfortable for a parent to think about. But whatever the age, some parents handle their kid's fore into the world of romance much better than others.

Someone asked parents of Reddit: "How do you feel when your kid brings back a girlfriend/boyfriend? How do you decide whether you like them or not?" Many parents, and a few kids, responded.

Here are 21 stories about parents meeting their kid's love interest for the first time.

Some of these parents reacted well. Not all of them. But at least none came out with a loaded shotgun like dads in bad teen movies.

1.) From dou8le8u88le:

Met my daughters boyfriend the other day. First boyfriend. She’s 17. He’s 18. I must admit I was a bit nervous and I remember very well being 18 and what I was thinking/wanting, but had a word with my self to be welcoming and warm and to treat him as an equal, my daughters friend and therefor my friend. Anyway he’s a nice young man so it’s all good. But I to answer your question I guess if he’s nice I’ll like him if he’s a dick i wont.

Either way as far as my daughter is concerned I’ll like him.

2.) From LittleMissEmmet:

My 4yo daughter introduced me to the 5yo neighbour kid as a bf, she told me he's really good at running fast and he appreciates snails as much as she does. Needless to say, this is a keeper

3.) From littlecakebaker:

My daughter(13) wanted me to meet her first "real" boyfriend. I was nice and pleasant, but I knew it wouldn't last cause he was all looks and no brains. Of course, as jr high relationships go, it was about a 2 month ordeal. I think all parents should try and be cordial, unless the person feels like a serial killer or something.

4.) From raynbowz13:

My daughter just started dating. She was mortified when I picked them up and asked if everything was Gucci

Narrator: everything was not Gucci.

5.) From Love3748:

When they interact and help out the rest of the family. When my daughter didn’t understand her homework and then her sisters boyfriend helped her it showed how much he actually cared.

6.) From GNOIZ1C:

My mother-in-law assumed I was some sort of player when I first met her before my first date with my wife. Even told my wife that she assumed I went on lots of dates back at school.

Joke’s on her. I spent the entirety of my freshman year (year before I met my wife) enjoying the sweet, sweet internet speed of my dorm room and playing the shit out of Halo 3, Mass Effect 1 & 2, picking up drunk dorm-mates from house parties at 3am, and going on exactly 0 dates.

After years of getting to know my MIL, she just didn’t want her daughter to get into a long-distance relationship, then end up moving out of state with me if we got married and I was still there (which ended up happening. Whoops).

7.) From Mr-Klaus:

Not a parent, but this was my experience with my mother when I was a teen.

So, as a teen, my mother pulled me to the side and gave me the "gay talk". You know, the "I'll still love you even if you were gay" talk.

I asked her why she thought I was gay and she said it was because I never bring any girls to the house.

Guess what I did within the next few days? I brought a girl in the house.

Guess what my mother did? She kicked her out and gave me a lecture on how inappropriate it was to bring girls to the house.

8.) From trustworthy_expert:

My mother has always been accepting of everyone I've ever dated, but realistic about their faults. My family immediately welcomes them with open arms, but just warns me if they seem "off" for whatever reason. I think it's a decent system.

9.) From tossitafterwank:

When my oldest daughter introduced her first serious boyfriend, he was an awkward kind of guy, was pretty unremarkable, but he got super animated about topics that interested him. I had a chat with him about my daughter... he got animated. They've been married for 9 years. Good guy, works hard, is a staunch advocate for his wife, and I love his smile when he looks at their kids.

My oldest son's first girlfriend was... not an emotional investment he was willing to make. she was pretty, but that was it. I scolded him, he got defensive, almost married her, but she made the mistake of asking my son about my money.... About a year later he brought home a beautiful, talented woman with an electric personality and more self confidence than even my cocksure eldest, and I was never more proud of him than when he took that dive. Their kids are incredible... great couple.

My second daughter just introduced us to a college friend of hers. He seems like a decent person. He's young, but he's got a head on his shoulders and seems able to conduct himself politely. I'll need more time to figure it out.

My youngest son had a high school sweetheart girlfriend that's now his college girlfriend. When I first met her she was 9, so I'm pretty enamored with her. Her parents have babysat and house sat for us, and they're all good people.

My youngest daughter has introduced me to a girlfriend from her trade school recently. Pretty sure she has been dating her for a couple years. She's angry, contrary, and bitter. Under all that baggage it's hard to tell, but I'm hoping that my home can be a place where she can just let whatever angers her so much disappear for a while and I can find out who she actually is. I've asked a good friend of my daughter's if there's ever been any signs of violence, as that's my only real concern, but so far it seems fine on that front. My youngest has always been a bit more subdued and contemplative than my others, so I'm hoping that whatever bitterness is in her girlfriend's life doesn't hurt her. This relationship is the most concerning one to me, because my daughter is a very sensitive person, and I fear for her happy, cheerful spirit.

10.) From retailface:

I have always instinctively known within seconds of meeting them. I've liked all but one of my son's partners, and the one I didn't feel right about was the one who screwed him up.

11.) From smalldoggobigpupper:

Here's my dad's take. He liked my ex-BF at first because he was initially polite and friendly, and I was very happy with him. However, my dad started to notice red flags later on and his opinion of him changed. For example, when we came back to my place from a day trip, he had sulked because I didn't show the enthusiasm he wanted about his favorite landmark. My dad told him that he should forgive me, but he still would not stop whining. My dad later told me that his reaction was blown out of proportion. Basically my dad would decide whether or not to like any guy I bring home based on the way he treats me.

12.) From teksti-tv666:

My step daughters boyfriend came into MY house and we were talking about computer games and he had the audacity to tell me why red dead 2 was better than god of war. IN MY HOUSE!! But respect to the lad for that, he stuck to his principals and a year later still argues with me about gaming stuff.

13.) From EmptyBobbin:

My eldest is 15, and boys in high school can be....gross. The way they speak to girls (and girls to boys) is just so far out of line it makes me ill. But her boyfriend is respectful to her and her family. Most importantly they're the same brand of weird. They facetime 19 hours a day I swear, but yesterday they had an entire conversation about penguins both using the same weird fake Russian type accent. He's her safe place and without very good cause, I'd never get in the way of that.

14.) From zangor:

Well they've all been fine so far. Except for one. It's the only time I've ever gotten mad enough to kick someone out of my home. He tried to get me to believe that he didn't know what a potato was.

15.) From ian2726:

I am nice to my son's girlfriend and my daughter's boyfriend.

It's not my job to have an opinion on who they choose.

If it all goes belly up I'm there to support them until the next one goes wrong. Rinse and repeat until they find their "one" or I'm dead.

I've been the hated boyfriend for no reason. It really sucks and affects the relationship.

My ex makes no secret of her opinions on the kids partners the only thing that does is stopps them talking to her about issues they have in their relationships.

16.) From Daisydumpling:

I feel excited for them, it’s that wonderful time at the start of a new relationship and it’s exciting to see them happy and enjoying this new experience. It’s still quite new for me (and them) so as a parent I’m still learning. I’ve been fine with all the people I’ve been introduced to so far, maybe as I know that the likelihood is these relationships won’t last so for me it’s not an issue if I don’t take to them. Time will tell once their relationships become more serious.

17.) From ConvincinglyBearded

My parents both instantly liked the first super nerdy boy I brought home. He didn't even have to talk before my dad was beaming at him. It was weird tbh.

I married the nerdy guy, so their instincts were good, so idk.

18.) From KevineCove:

I said, "Whatever you do to my daughter, I will do to you."

I've been stuck giving him emotional support and validation for three years. That fucking bastard.

19.) From donac:

My husband and I always "like" the person unless there's something terribly wrong with them. First of all, we want our kids to trust us and never to disregard our not liking a potential mate because "we never like anyone". Secondly, we would never want our kids to feel like they have to choose - it's their mate, not ours. Thirdly, most young people are fairly okay, so no point in acting like no one can be good enough for our precious babies.

20.) From iff_true:

I first met one of my kids' partners when they both joined us on a weekend away. We had a discussion on some general subject in which he disagreed with me. He defended his position rather than defer to me.

Good chap.

21.) From whomp1970:

I don't have to like him. My daughter has to like him.

Just like hairstyles. Doesn't matter if I like your hairstyle or not, you're the one who has to wear it.

Now, if my daughter asks me advice, or asks my opinion, I'll be honest with her, even if it may hurt, because I care about her and I only want to see her happy.

But if I'm not asked, I will welcome the guy, be friendly and kind to him, and keep my opinions to myself. Why? Because SHE chose him, and if that makes HER happy, then I'm happy.

Mom cuts off mother-in-law from baby unless she accepts grandchild from other relationship.

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Falling in love and building a family involves navigating a lot of complex emotional dynamics, one of which is dealing with your partner's family. In an ideal scenario, you'll get along with your spouse's parents and they'll be loving grandparents, but that's sadly not always the case.

Setting boundaries with your own family is hard enough, but when it comes to a mother-in-law you have to find a balance between protecting your own emotions and considering how the relationship affects your spouse. This can lead to very precarious on-going tensions, and those only build with time if unresolved.

In a recent post on the Am I The *sshole subreddit, a woman asked if she was wrong for calling out her mother-in-law's unequal treatment of her children.

AITA for telling my child’s grandmother she isn’t grandma?

For context, OP shared that she had her 7-year-old with another man, before meeting her current husband and having their 5-month old baby.

However, her husband has been in the older child's life for 6 years and fully considers both children his.

I have two children, a 7 year old and a 5 month old baby - they don’t have the same dad, my husband has been involved in my eldest child’s life for 6 years and 5 months, he sees my eldest as his child.

Over the years OP's mother-in-law has been adamant about reminding OP that she "isn't the grandma" of the older child.

MIL has told me several times before I got pregnant again - she isn’t grandma to eldest child, she’s disgusted that my son sees “it” as his child, husband often tries to calm the situation before we argue.

Despite the palpable tension, OP has put up with her mother-in-law for the sake of her husband.

Despite how much I don’t want her around she is my husbands mother, so we meet while my eldest is at school.

Tensions came to a boil when OP's mother-in-law expressed excitement for "finally getting called grandma" during a recent conversation about OP's new baby.

For years, OP has quietly hoped her mother-in-law would accept the older child as family.

Well we were talking recently about the newborn and she said “oh I can’t wait for name to call me grandma!”

I can see her point that my eldest and her aren’t biologically related and she’s old fashioned but I can also see that this is a child and she should be willing to overlook her “views”

OP put her foot down and said the mother-in-law can't call the new baby a grandchild if she continues to exclude the older child.

This call-out made OP's mother-in-law super angry, and now her husband is also upset.

Husband is upset with me because I told her she isn’t grandma, she has no right to see this one as her grandchild but not my eldest who’s been in her life since she was 9 months old

She’s genuinely upset about this

AITA?

eagle2120 thinks OP did the right thing.

NTA

she’s disgusted that my son sees “it” as his child

What the fuck, absolutely not. Your family is a package deal, either they all are, or none of them are.

You also may want to check out r/justnomil - They may have some resources to help you out in your situation

PommeDeSang thinks everyone has mishandled the situation.

ESH, some more than others.

MIL for being the way she is. I've got some colorful adjectives, but yeah I don't want this deleted.

YOU for not jumping up your husband's *ss to get his mother in line and defending HIS stepson.

Hubs for allowing this to happen.

She treats them equally or she doesn't get to play grandma. I say this as someone whose own grandmother used to be a b*tch about things like this - she snapped at me once for referring to my step cousin in law(grandfather's step grandchild) as my cousin with no modifier. Flat out, "That girl isn't kin to you."

GES85 thinks the mother-in-law should be kept away from both kids.

NTA.

What a mean woman. It's takes a special kind of evil to treat a child like that. Your SO needs to stick up for your eldest, which might include limiting this woman's access to your children. Also, you might want to throw this to the peanut gallery over on JNMIL.

j18rob is a grandma and thinks the mother-in-law is acting shamefully.

My son-in-law has 2 kids from his first marriage and 1 with my daughter his wife.

His eldest children also call me Grandma and I am thrilled to bits that they decided to accept me as a grandparent.

Your MIL's attitude is disgusting and your hubby should have nipped this in the bud years ago.

NTA.

Hopefully the affirmation of the internet will help OP stand her ground, and her husband will see that he needs to take action and set a boundary with his own mom. There is no excuse for a grandma to treat a 7-year-old in such a dismissive and manipulative way while cooing over a baby.

23 Memes That Will Only Be Funny If You've Been To Disney.

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"I love Mickey Mouse more than any woman I have ever known."

-Walt Disney

Anyone who's ever shelled out the big bucks to go any of the Disney theme parks will find these memes utterly hilarious. There's something about that mouse keeps people coming back despite the crowds, prices, and screaming children.

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Bride texts photo of dress to wrong number, and stranger starts a wedding fund.

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Usually, when someone receives a wrong number text, the most exciting thing that could happen is that they go viral on sites such as this one.

Bride-to-be Taya Kingsborough did even better.

Kingsborough, who lives in Washington state, accidentally mistyped her father's number from a new phone, and instead of sending her dad a picture of her at a bridal shop, texted a stranger.

"I had just gotten a brand new phone and I had asked my mom 'what's dad's number?' Because nobody remembers anybody's phone numbers any more. I don't remember," Kingsborough told WTHR."So she had given me his number and I was entering it and I must have hit a 1 instead of the 2. And I was so excited and I was waiting for a reply. I'm like my dad usually replies faster than this by now. And then all of a sudden she was like, 'Oh you look so cute, you look so happy. But I think you may have texted the wrong number. Congratulations.'"

The stranger, aka @AKGrown12, shared the photo on Twitter, and sent a reply.

AKGrown12 asked Kingsborough for her Venmo information so she could send a little wedding gift.

Inspired by the random act of kindness, even more strangers started sending gifts.

Kingsborough made a Twitter account to say thank you.

Her mom popped in to thank the people as well.

Forget the dad....@AKGrown12 should walk Taya down the aisle.

People are sharing the weirdest things they've seen on their home security cameras.

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Home security cameras capture all the movements of the night, and not all of them are comforting. If you were to sit down and watch hours of home security footage, most of them would be painfully boring, but the few rare happenings could inspire equal parts chills and question marks.

While reviewing security footage can be tedious, there's very little point in having a home security camera if you never check it for intel. Plus, it functions as indisputable evidence if a crime or home invasion ever goes down.

In a popular Reddit thread, people with home security cameras shared the weirdest things they've seen.

1. Kuribohhunter saw a man poop in their shrub.

We bought a new house about 8 months ago, and installed security cameras recently. I looked over footage to see if it was working properly and didn't want to believe what I found.

At around 3am there was a random guy that was briskly walking in and out of my driveway, and kept shifting around. He looked as if he needed to find something. He goes over to one of the bushes on the side (it represents the barrier line) and takes a shit. A fucking shit.

I had to replay it a couple times to make sure i was seeing this correctly. Then i thought "Is that thing still there?"

Turns out it was still in the shrub, guess it was his housewarming gift.

2. lvealey017 could never even wear the sweater again.

I saw someone break into my car, take my sweater out of the front seat, stood there and smelled it for a solid 5-10 minutes. Then put it back and left.

I gave that sweater away that day.

3. ElApplewalrus watched their own sleep paralysis.

Fell asleep on the couch that night. Had a bad incident of sleep paralysis. Watched the playback a few hours later of me trying to pull myself out of it. With the night vision being engaged it looks really creepy because eyes glow combined with the slow blinking during the event. It's like watching a zombie version of yourself.

4. LauraPringlesWilder doesn't know who the man was.

I wasn’t asleep but it was 1am. Both my ring cameras go off, which, because of how they’re angled, means only a full sized adult can be in my yard. I check the notification — dude starts walking up the sidewalk to my yard, camera with flood light kicks on, dude instantly turns around like he was mistaken and goes on to the neighbor’s yard.

Neither us nor the neighbor knew him. Shady.

Mostly I just get videos of cats visiting though

5. inflake_ doesn't know what their dog was looking at.

I wake up at 6 am and just go through my security camera before heading to work. One day while looking through, I just saw my dog staring directly at my room. Skimmed through the different timelines, he did that for 30 minutes. Not sure why.

Edit: the full sized adult thing: one camera is angled down, one is angled out from a raised porch. Thus they only both go off if there is movement in my yard taller than waist high. It’s a great setup, highly recommend.

6. Gracelanr's dogs did their job.

A couple who would drive by at random hours of the day for a full week, would walk up to the house and look at my dogs (pit bulls). Look into each window in the front and even checked the back gate/fence.

The camera was older and had no "notifications" so the only way we knew was the moment they decided to open up the door (while I was home sick) and were subsequently rushed by my dogs. I heard the commotion and grabbed the only weapon I had, a bat, to find the front door open and what looked like a murder scene in my living room.

Blood. Everywhere. All over the floor, the front door, the little entrance way, the window. Turns out I have two very good bois and the idiots went to the hospital to eventually be caught by police. They were going to take my dogs to be in dogfights. Involved in a bunch of other seedy things (drugs, prostitution).

7. thingpaint's cat was freaked by the camera.

I got a security camera to keep tabs on my sick cat. The first day I swear every time I connected she turned and stared directly at the camera.

8. InkblotDoggo saw a man die.

I installed some security cameras after some altercations with a horrible neighbor.

Most I'd see was a squirrel, maybe a raccoon or two. Saw a fox once. That was cool.

One night, I saw a guy walking up and down the street, passing my house over and over again. He seemed to limp more and more with each pass, before he collapsed.

Later found out that guy was on a massive drug trip, and he died there. On the sidewalk. In front of my house. There was blood on that patch for weeks.

EDIT: Turns out he'd killed his then-girlfriend at the time whilst tripping out. Was kindly asked to mention it in the main post by a comment.

9. PeanutPicker's dad had a raccoon mooch.

When I lived with my dad, he once had this ambitious raccoon that discovered he never locked the doggy door. So the raccoon would come in, eat a bunch of shit, and run away before we'd wake up. So he put an automated doggy door in so it only works if my dog went near it with a collar designed to open it.

10. SlytherinAhri doesn't know who let the dog out.

Wasn't asleep, but when I lived with my ex, we had a few security cameras and they send you alerts when there's motion detected. I was at work and got an alert that there was motion in the living room and I figured it was my ex coming home early, but I checked it anyway. Instead, I saw my dog standing in the middle of the living room staring at the wall. He stood there for a minute and then got on the sofa to sleep.

Two things were terrifyingly off about that. 1) my dog was a puppy at the time and was crated when home alone. The crate is made of solid wood, metal grates and has thick and heavy eye/hook latches, so there's no conceivable way he could have opened the door. 2) He was kept in the office, which is located off the hall and we kept the door separating the living room from the hall closed during the day to keep the room cooler for him.

I looked back at the recording because I was very confused and unfortunately, because the hall door was closed I couldn't see how his crate got opened. But the hall door opened on its own and he walked out into the living room about 30 seconds later. The hall door was like a regular bedroom door, it closed with a knob/latch and wouldn't have opened even if you pushed on it. There were no sounds aside from the normal house noises. No cars or people had been in view of the outside cameras since we'd left and no other motion detections had went off.

11. AleenaMorgan caught their neighbor stealing.

We caught a neighbor who stole a package off our front porch that UPS had dropped off. It was an expensive car part (idk what kind, my husband is a car nut).

He was very quick to give it back when the police showed up at his door, because my husband wanted his car stuff rather than press charges and have it go to evidence.

12. Lovelyhairedpianist's boss prevented a robbery.

I used to work for a company in California. Pretty small office just off the side of the road. Lots of gang activity around the area. They've got the Ring Doorbell camera so they can safely tell if they can open the door at night.

One night there's a group of guys hanging around looking at our property. We don't think much of it because they leave in about ten minutes. Next day a guy shows up and just walks into our fabrication shop in broad daylight looking around. Never has this happened before. Our boss intervenes immediately:

Boss: "Can I help you?"

Guy: "OH SHIT Uh hey there, a-are you guys hiring..?"

Boss: "No. You have five seconds to fuck off."

Guy leaves in a mad dash. We called the cops and they find him walking down the street 5 minutes later. Turns out the gang was planning on robbing our facility while we were on holiday leave and they'd assigned him to scout out the interior.

13. ZonaEshe's friend's ex came to their apartment.

I live in an apartment unit right next door to the office. They installed a new security camera for their door which covers a part of mine as well shortly after I moved in.

The office manager knocked on my door a few days after the install and asked me to come look at something. She pulled up footage of the night before that showed a guy pacing in front of my door for six hours! He even left for a couple minutes and came back with something he tried to stick in my door frame a few times. I was asleep the whole time and heard nothing.

Turned out to be a recent ex of a friend of mine. I'd only met him once. Still have no idea how he knew where I lived unless he followed her to my place once as we live close by each other. Cops called, reports filed, they eventually found him. He had been on a pretty bad drug bend since their breakup from what I heard and has no recollection of being there. Meth is a helluva drug.

14. CarlSpencer watched two women fail at a home invasion.

When I was a poor college student my wealthy cousin and his wife went on vacation and offered to let me house-sit to give me a break from my 3 slovenly roommates. They live a few towns over in a very nice house with a huge front lawn and a fancy, tall iron fence and double gates. The fence and gates are about 11 feet high. You have to have a remote to open the gates. That first night I slept so well! I breakfasted like a king and then drove to school. I got back around 5, made a supper fit for a king, and settled down to write an Econ paper.

My cousin has a warning system for when someone drives turns off the road and comes up to the gate. There's a chiming sound and you can look at screens in a couple of different rooms to see who it is so that you can buzz them in. I was deep into my paper when I heard the chime. I was confused at first and checks my 'phone before I realized what it was. I looked from the sofa and could see a movement on the security screen. I stood up and got closer and had a clear view of two women getting out of a white car.

One tried to squeeze between two bars of the gate (impossible) and then the other woman tried to boost her over the top of the gate (hilarious). The top one fell and even from the house I could heard swearing. I was about to press the intercom button and ask WTF was their problem but I was chuckling at their antics and so just watched silently. They peered at the house intently from between the bars like a couple of jailbirds for a while. The skinnier one actually stripped down to her bra and panties and tried to squeeze through the bars again. No dice. Butt and boobs were not allowing that to happen. More swearing.

Then as the skinny one got dressed again, the bigger one went back to her trunk and got out a fucking tire iron. As soon as she started fucking with the hinges of the gate I was on 911. The cops took too long and the women left. I showed the cops the video but they couldn't get a license plate number. When my cousin and his wife returned the next week I told them what happened and we watched the tape. He said that he had no idea who the women were but his wife looked pissed. I packed up, thanked them for my "vacation" and left.

She divorced him that Summer.

15. Archshangz is now scared of themselves.

I put up a camera in my room to record myself when that was a whole fad. I saw myself kicking and crying in my sleep, legitimate tears and also muttering something. I saw myself reach and grab my hair when I curled into a ball. I don’t even remember having a nightmare or anything that night. Definitely a reason to be afraid of myself.

16. SpreadTheSlug saw a video of a man who loved himself some doorbell action.

I saw this one video of some guy in California that went to this house and spent 2 hours licking their security camera/ doorbell - disappeared for a bit and then came back to resume the licking of the camera for another hour or so.

17. captainwizeazz's ghost let themselves out.

I woke up one morning and my front door was wide open. Scared the shit out of me but couldn't figure it out as nothing was missing. Went back and looked at my camera and it turns out at around 4am the door just swings open for no reason. Never figured out why.

18. crashlanding87's neighbors are now worried.

So I'm sitting in my living room at night, just recently moved into my new flat. I'm in a basement flat, own entrance, in a little townhouse on the edge of town. Quiet area, lots of trees, cheap rent and like no public transport or cell reception. I'm living alone for the first time.

I'd just set up the security cameras and hooked them up to a new monitor (the old one was ancient and gigantic). Hadn't figured out where to put the monitor, I'd never had a security system before. It was (at the time) on my work desk, which was at the living room window.

I notice this slight yellow glow out the window out the corner of my eyes, slowly getting brighter. As it does, I notice on the camera that their's a huge ass shadow cast across my door (visible from camera, to the left of the window) that looks kinda animal but weird proportions. I quietly shit myself.

It sits there for while, like a good 10 minutes, moving just enough to make me wonder if I'm imagining it moving. There's a kind of whining/buzzing noise, but it's faint and I might be imagining it. I suddenly find religion.

Then all of a sudden there's a loud POP from inside my building, the glow goes instantly away, there's a sound like a really pissed cat and then really rapid footsteps. I'm in like full cardiac arrest at this point, bathing in my own urine, crying for my mum.

19. LuckyMitten's neighbor lost some flowers to a strange man.

My neighbour told me years ago that when she checked the footage from her security cams outside her front house she found a guy coming into in her yard picking her flowers and sticking them down the front of his underwear.

He was never seen again. Just once.

Flash forward a week or so: I haven't been eaten by a cat shadow monster, though i do have a sudden new interest in exorcisms. I meet the upstairs neighbours (older couple) when they're having trouble getting a large package up the stairs. They offer me tea as thanks. I notice their cat sitting in the window. Its movement reminds me of something, and after a while I realise it's the shadow monster.

I ask a few questions to round out the details. Turns out the neighbours had one of those lights-on-a-sensor which turn on when they detect movement. Cat jumps up to ledge, light turns on. But it was an eco light, so warmed up slow. It then went out. Loudly. I'm too embarrassed/relieved to recant the story, so I make my excuses, leaving the nice couple upstairs with the impression that their new downstairs neighbour is a weirdo who stares at cats, has a really keen interest in light bulbs, and a predilection for nervous laughter. They don't invite me up for tea anymore, but they do ask if I'm OK every time they see me.

20. polypagan's neighbor gassed their birds.

Smelled kerosene in my chicken house (not for first time) one morning. Reviewed cam footage. Good video of neighbor entering with kerosene can and pouring it on my birds. She hates me and my birds. Maybe just me.

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