Rodney Dangerfield "didn't get no respect," and he's not the only one. Unfortunately, human beings can be extremely disrespectful to a mind-boggling degree. Refusing to wear masks during a global pandemic is not even the worst that our species is capable of. Luckily, there's a little thing called karma that tends to punish these people in the end. But that doesn't make their behavior any less infuriating in the moment.
Someone asked Reddit: "what is the most disrespectful shit someone has done to you?" These 22 people share their infuriating and wild stories about someone treating them like garbage:
1.) From ReshaXX1:
When I worked a kiosk someone sneezed into their hand and wiped it on my back when they passed by.
2.) From Plastic_kangaroo:
My first job as a photography intern, my boss posted on Facebook that he was going to fire me hours before he told me. We were friends on Facebook at the time.
3.) From lchoate:
I'm sure others have had it way worse, but when I was about 17, I was assembling a ride on train track (about 2 feet between rails) for an indoor amusement park when the owner of the company came in. He decided to help me. I don't know why, I didn't ask for help and didn't need help.
He helped me put a couple track segments together and decided that was enough work for him so he got up off the floor and wiped his greasy, dusty hands off on my jeans. With my leg in them. I was seriously incensed.
4.) From Batsarebest:
My ex-husband and I were on the road to divorce. I had done absolutely everything I could possibly think of to turn us around, and as a last ditch effort, I wrote him a letter. I knew it had a 0.1% chance of doing anything, so it was also kind of a "thank you for the good years" letter, too.
We were living with his parents because originally, we sold our house to make an upgrade. I guess that was his window of opportunity. Anyway, his mom found the letter and not only read it, but took pictures of it and shared it with multiple people, who started tearing me apart via text.
How did I know this? She never hears her phone go off, so I would usually bring it to her. I went to do that and saw the mentions of a letter and saw the context of what was sent.i didn't say anything, just set the phone back down and went outside to get a breath of air.
Later that week, she said she was tired of me being around and that he needed me to sign the papers then and there and I didn't get a say in anything. I mentioned sharing the letter, and she said she was allowed to do that because it was in her house. Therefore, it was her property.
Still trying to wrap my head around that one.
And then they sat there and watched TV while I packed my things.
5.) From CaptainRipp:
It was a first day of one of my college courses and we were telling everyone our names. I said mine and the professor said "My husband wanted to name our son that but I didn't want him to get made fun of."
EDIT: My name is Angus
6.) From vPaladin81:
Was working at a Dairy Queen when I was 16. It was a hot summer day and a lady came in and dumped her melted blizzard upside down on my arm/hand. In the process it covered my register, the wall and the floor.. She started yelling about how her ice cream melted and how I need to make her a new one. She was served in the drive through....I was working the front counter inside. My coworker said she left over 20 minutes ago. I still had to make her a new one and give her a refund.
7.) From appear_offline:
Locked my new bike up outside a supermarket and ducked inside to get some yoghurt because it was Friday night and that's how I destress after a long week.
Self-checkout line was busier than expected but I was in and out in about ten to fifteen minutes. Didn't want to leave it for too long because someone had pinched the seat from outside my house a couple of weeks earlier.
From a shirt distance I could see my bike was facing the opposite way I'd left it and felt a little confused. I got closer and saw my U-lock looking like a pretzel. It seemed like someone had tried to wrench off my lock, failed and then just picked up my bike and tried to use it as leverage to pop the thing off, failed again, but succeeded in completely f*cking the entire aluminium frame; total write-off, could not be fixed.
8.) From sluman001:
I had someone I considered a close friend send an unprovoked email outing me to the entire staff of the place I worked. Not only that, he took a screenshot of an online dating profile as proof and told them to keep their kids away from me. (I was a teaching professional at a country club.)
9.) From tucaraesfeo2:
My ex didn't allow me to have any female friends and wouldn't even let me say my best friend's (female) name in front of her. We broke up because she fell in love with her best friend (male).
10.) From My_Name_Is_SKELETOR:
Yesterday at my job (supermarket) I went outside with some guy to bring the handicap scooter back in. He immediately began to yell at me and curse at me about how hes handicapped and for not helping his wife unload their groceries. I tried explaining to him that because of the current situation, we cant touch people's groceries unless they specifically ask us. He wouldn't even let me talk, kept interrupting and insulting me. So I just stayed quiet and he eventually threatened to call his grandson to come kick my ass, then drove off with his wife who was also insulting me under her breath. Being an essential worker sucks...
11.) From GlutenbergBible:
Go to a meeting for work. Coworker says to opposing counsel “hey, do you want to meet GlutenbergBible? He’s here” and gestures back at me standing in the hall with a bunch of files. This motherfucker looks me up and down, turns back to my coworker, and says “no.”
12.) From Barky_Bark:
Former boss owed me some back pay for a legit reason. My wife went into hospital for a month because of a complicated pregnancy, Baby was C section and then had to be NICU. The day of the c section, boss said he wasn’t going to pay me anything.
Edit for all those asking: yes of course I put in a complaint with the Ontario Ministry if Labour. Unfortunately if an employer doesn’t pay even after an order, it’s put to collections. If the person is shitty enough like this dude was they just dodge those collections too. I’m sure it’ll catch up with him eventually, but at this point he’s been run out of his home city.
13.) From Death_By_Pun:
I was in 5th grade, 10 or 11 years old.
I didn't do homework often, because my teacher was mean, and I didn't want to do anything he asked me to do. But I decided to put in extra effort to finish all my overdo math homework so I could submit it the next day.
I finish all the work sheets in one night, stapled them all together, and wrote my name on the top one.
I gave them to him, he looked them over, tore off the top one, then ripped the rest of them in half and threw them away.
He looked at me and said, "I don't know who those belonged to, they didn't have your name on them."
And then he kept me inside from recess and told me to redo them all.
F*cking asshole, I'm still pissed at you, Mr. Prime.
14.) From SweetDangus:
When I was 18, I was dating an alcoholic. We arrived separately to a party, and when I got there he was wearing nothing but a bathrobe, drunk as f*ck, and insulting and trying to fight EVERYONE. I tried really hard to get him to leave the party so I could drive him home, and he was not having it. Started berating me and then threw a lit cigarette down my shirt.
The same guy also put an overripe banana down the back of my shorts and hit my ass as hard as he could in front of all his stupid friends.. he f*cking sucked. Thankfully, it’s 10 years later I have self respect now and don’t date assholes anymore.
15.) From ErikDestlerDaae:
I was new to my middle school. This middle school was in a small town where everyone knew each other and I was nervous since I knew absolutely no one.
I walked into the cafeteria on the first day where we had to wait until the bell rang to go to class. I looked around and realized everywhere was full except for this one space at the bench-like tables. I headed towards it and asked the girl who was in the space next to it if I could sit there.
She looked up at me, gave me a dirty look and asked "Are you homeless?"
I was dumbstruck. I didn't say anything, but she did shift a bit so I could sit down.
I don't remember who she was, I don't remember her face, or even her voice, but her words will always stick with me.
16.) From sloppyjoesandwich:
I was living with my gf for 2 years. In the middle of that time we broke up and she moved out for 2 months because she couldn’t stick with any job for more than a few months and tried jobs in another state. She came back and we started building our relationship back up. We went on a few trips, things were going good. Months later we went to Christmas at each others family’s homes. Our families got our SO gifts and vise versa.
5 days later I came home from work and everything of hers was gone. She just dipped while I was at work. Moved everything in 8 hours. My rent and bills instantly doubled since I was paying for the whole place now. I felt like an idiot for bringing her to my family xmas. My family was so accepting of her just for her to dip a few days later. I always wondered how long she was planning this. I never reached out to get answers and it was hard for me to ever trust a partner entirely, i still struggle with insecurity tbh.
Anyway, she left the dog and my dog means more to me than she ever did. Also I’m getting married in October to the most perfect woman and happier than I’ve ever been. Here’s my dog
17.) From whereegosdare84:
It was the night before my 21st birthday. My best friend in college who was older than me was excited to take me to a bar at midnight to ring in the momentous occasion.
Then this girl who had been flirting with him for weeks called to tell him she was having a party.
Thinking we could do both he decided to drag me along before going to the bars.
Now her place was outside the city, and therefore outside nightlife. But, my friend who honestly up until this point was reliable, assured me that we’d leave after an hour so I should call my other friends to meet us downtown.
I’m sure you can all assume we didn’t make it to the bar and some might have guessed “oh it’s because your friend hooked up with this chick.” Well slowdown because this is where shit gets disrespectful.
We go in, hang out, she’s all over him and tells everyone to come go skinny dipping with her. We can both see the danger signs flashing and decide that now would be a good time to go.
Unfortunately she took offense to this and calls him a slut while smacking him across the face.
She starts crying and tells us to get out before chucking a bottle of vodka at his car shattering the passenger side window where I was sitting. This is while we’re driving away.
He stops, screams at her and I got to spend my 21st birthday giving a statement to the cops and picking vodka soaked glass out of my shoulder.
18.) From Duckerton3:
Went in for a handshake and they dabbed on me
19.) From bombayblue:
Girl invited me out on a dinner date and then made out with my roommate while I was asleep.
They dated for two years before she cheated on him so I’m really not that broken up about it but it was a rough few months.
20.) From IDoThingsOnWhims:
I was making out with a girl sometime after midnight in a bar on NYE (first time I ever managed to do so with someone I just met at nearly age 24) , she pulls away for a second, looks at me and says:
"What am I doing? I'm drunk and you're ugly"
Edit: thanks for the compassion everyone. This statement going through my head was gym fuel for many years afterwards. And she actually didn't want to stop making out with me, and being drunk myself with minimal self esteem, I figured the best revenge was to get her to continue kissing an ugly dude.
21.) From Augusta13:
I take my lunch break in my car. Always have for the last 10 years at my office. I park in a peaceful, quiet area overlooking a duck pond. I open the sun roof and get some fresh air and listen to the NPR lunchtime program with current/local events and it’s a really nice getaway from the monotony of office life.
Apparently, a coworker who historically has had beef with me started telling people I was “doing marijuana” on my lunch breaks and that’s why I never ate in the break room. She compiled a lengthy list of my behaviors that would mimic drug use. This list included things like being spaced out, being more talkative some days then others and often being tired (ya know, also signs of being an overworked adult). She also started keeping a folder of extremely petty “mistakes” I had made to prove I was high at work. These “mistakes” were such minor oversights, they affected no one at all.
She took this “proof” to not only our boss, but also to the physicians who own and run our office. She presented it as concern for my well being, but if she were truly concerned about me, wouldn’t she bring it up with me first? Luckily all my bosses knew my work is and was 100% at all times and didn’t think twice about it. I didn’t even know about any of this going down until she was fired a year later, for unrelated reasons.
Welp, joke’s on you Ashley, I’m the mf boss now and I actually DO “do marijuana” daily - but I wait until after hours because I take pride in my work.
22.) From attackedmoose:
After delaying my flight, re-routing it in the middle of my flight, letting us off the plane to “stretch our legs” and the immediately canceling my flight, forgetting to call for a bus to shuttle all the passengers to the destination airport for 2 hours, a 2 hour bus ride, and missing my connecting flight the United airline employee refused to give me a hotel voucher. It was 3 AM and she told me “I’m sure someone will give you a blanket.”
23.) From _iPood_:
20+ years ago when I was in 6th grade, an 8th grader spit on my bike, then in my helmet, then on me.
I punched him in the face. One of my friends saw all this, ran up and also punched him in the face.
He ran home.