It's pretty common to hate weddings these days, but not every bride and groom is a blood sucker who devours gifts and attention.

Believe it or not, some people fell in love and want you to share in that for an evening.

Nevertheless, a wedding RSVP sent to a "chrissy" and posted to Times Union is under scrutiny now because it dared to be slightly sassy. It asks the invitee if they will take the happy couple up on their offer of free booze (obviously a joke because we all know you end up paying for every cent of that liquor in travel, wardrobe, and gifts), and if not, what their "lame excuse" could possibly be.

Granted, there are plenty of obnoxious couples out there who think they're comedians. But this RSVP? Sees like a joke coming out of extreme self-awareness.

Still, in a poll put up on Times Union, a full 37% of people found this RSVP to be "classless."

Classless? It's a humorous wedding invite, not a picture of them stealing a watch off a corpse.

Unless this is a marriage between two drunks who want to shame sober friends for being on the wagon, the offer of free booze is clearly in fun. And the use of "lame excuse?" It's sarcasm intended to acknowledge that other people have lives of their own, and that you shouldn't feel bad if you can't make it.

And that's classy as hell.

When you really think about it, love is nothing more than trying to find someone who is as freaking weird as you are. They say there's someone out there for everyone, and nothing proves that more than these five weird couples who miraculously found each other and now can live in mutual weirdness forever (or until they decide they're sick of each other and break up). So don't give up on love just yet, because if they can find someone, you sure as hell can, too.

1. Love at first latch—the breastfeeding couple.

Jennifer Mulford and her boyfriend Brad Leeson are in an "adult breastfeeding relationship," which is exactly what it sounds like it is. Yes, the thought is horrifying to most, and yes, you are allowed to scream.

Jennifer lets Brad suck on her boobs every four hours (not in the fun way) in a practice called "dry feeding." They hope that one day she'll literally be able to feed her boyfriend with her own tit-milk.

This isn't for everyone! This isn't for most people! But this is how these two lovebirds have chosen to express their love for one another! That's beautiful. Who are we to judge? Except just a little bitty bit? You can read more about the joys of "dry feeding" here.

2. The couple that invited over 1,000 cats and no people to their wedding.

Don't be jealous you didn't think of that first. Canadians Louise Veronneau and Dominic Husson traveled from Montreal to Cat House on the Kings cat shelter in California to get married in front of 1,100 furry witnesses. Good news! You don't have to grow up to be a crazy cat lady after all—you can be a crazy cat couple! All the hairballs, none of the loneliness.

Honestly, if they both agreed that this would be their dream wedding, then they are probably going to last. Plus, they didn't have to deal with guest lists, seating, or any of those pre-wedding planning headaches. On the downside, their wedding probably smelled like a litter box.

3. The couple who got plastic surgery to look like Barbie and Ken.

Quentin Dehar and Anastasia Reskoss' romance started when they both realized they shared the longing to resemble proportionally-incorrect plastic dolls Barbie and Ken. The two also connected on their love of plastic surgery, on which they have collectively spent over $300,000 in an effort to resemble the toys. The bad news is they really don't look like Barbie and Ken at all.

Unfortunately, just like the real Barbie and Ken, it seems that Dehar and Reskoss have called it quits. Dehar announced it on Instagram with this very on-brand picture.

Yikes. Violent. It's too bad, too, since the couple were planning their future together, starting with legally changing their names to "Barbie" and "Ken." Oh, what could have been.

4. The couple who pretend to be living at the turn of the century even though life is much easier now.

Sarah and Gabe Chrisman are very unlike any other young married couple around today because they're actually more like any young married couple from 170 years ago. They chose to live their life as if it were the Victorian Era, before the time of cool stuff like sushi-burritos and Snapchat. They're totally missing out.

Yeah, they don't have phones, prefer oil lamps to electricity, and when they want to hit the town, it's in high-wheeled tricycles. They are really leaning in.

I bathe with a bowl and pitcher every morning, and for a nice long soak I use our cast-iron clawfoot bathtub. I wash my hair using Castile bar soap from a company established in 1839. (Shampooing with Castile soap is a piece of beauty advice I found in a Victorian magazine from about the time our house was built.) My hairbrush is a 130-year-old design, and my toothbrush has natural boar bristles.

Curiously, they do maintain an online blog.

5. Doug Hutchinson and Courtney Stodden, ewww.

Doug Hutchinson and his child bride Courtney Stodden got married when Courtney was only 16 and Doug was 51. Even though everyone thought that the whole thing was just a creepy publicity stunt, the couple has been going strong for over five years now. Maybe it's just a really long creepy publicity stunt.

Courtney and Doug are expecting their first child together, even though Courtney was just a child a few years ago.

Basically, these five couples are weird AF. But you can't even hate on them too much because they defied the odds and found love, which is more than the 50 million people on Tinder can say. Maybe the key to finding love is being unabashedly yourself, even if you are kind of a freak.

Sarah Paulson is awesome no matter what she does: waking up, brushing her teeth, posing topless in an amazing photo spread in W Magazine with photos from Mona Kuhn. You know, the usual.

The actress best known for having two heads in American Horror Story and failing to put O.J. in prison in American Crime Story shed her characters (and her clothes) for the recent photoshoot.

It's rare to see a 41-year-old woman celebrated in a magazine, let alone one without clothes on. The accomplished actress was included in the spread alongside middle-aged hunks Damien Lewis, Live Schreiber, and Hugh Dancy. With men being photographed in bed well into their forties, it’s rare to see a woman who has her sh*t together be photographed through the "desirable" lens. W Magazine is breaching this double standard with Paulson’s double Ds.

Carrie Fisher clapped back at this craziness when she was shamed for letting time pass and no longer looking the same as she did in a gold bikini.W and Paulson are saying "screw it" to aging trolls by representing how beautiful age can be.

Nothing tells of the irrelevance of age when it comes to desire like Paulson's off-screen relationship. In addition to reliving the dream of the 90s with O.J., she publicly confirmed her relationship with fellow actress Holland Taylor who, at 73, is a full 32 years older than her. The couples’ social media accounts are full of PDA, the type of May-December, same-sex romance seldom seen on screen.

Women, like all living things, age with time, and W and Paulson DGAF. Neither should we.

Imgur user Laureeadeline posted a text conversation she had with her baby daddy after he sent their daughter to daycare in a hilarious outfit. The dad, Jeremy, had no idea he committed a fashion faux pas, which makes it all the funnier. Sometimes dads do legendary and silly things on accident. He also somehow didn't even know the actual term for the outfit he provided for little Olivia:

Here's the text conversation, in which he pleads ignorance:

He tried his best, and Olivia seems quite happy. And while he forgot the word for "overalls," he did manage to get her to daycare successfully. Next time he'll remember to put a shirt on under "that thing."

Jimmy Kimmel's latest edition of Lie Witness News took to the streets to see how people feel about Hillary Clinton's damn emails. Jaded Hillary haters were not surprised when it was "revealed" that Hillz accepted Osama bin Laden's invitation to connect on LinkedIn, and forwarded a super-funny, offensive Bill Cosby joke.

While Hillary might be full of lies, these honest people reacting to fake emails are telling the truth.

One minute you have an "acrimonious" split at the Met Gala. Weeks later, you've moved on to a Canadian rapper slightly closer to your age. Then, you're back together with the ex and he's moving in to your $6 billion home. And now you're calling him your "husband" on Snapchat.

Kylie Jenner and Tyga's on-again, off-again relationship seems to be back on. The model posted a Snapchat video yesterday during an at-home manicure date with a friend. "This reminds me of my husband," she says, while zooming in on some Egyptian-themed nail art.

Just last week the 26-year-old rapper sparked rumors that the romance had been rekindled when he posted a photo of 18-year-old Kylie on Instagram, which he later deleted.

Let's hope these crazy kids can make it last this time. Because if you can't count on the love between a young reality star and a struggling rapper eight years her senior, what can you believe in?

Actress Brynne Huffman was running errands when a stranger wearing, of all things, a "Coexist" T-shirt, took time out of her day to mock Huffman for wearing shorts as a larger woman. You know, the conversation everyone wants to get into while they're at a UPS store. A furious Huffman posted about the incident on Facebook, where her account has gone viral with over 10,000 likes and over 4,000 shares.

It reads:

Ok here goes. Read this. It's long. I don't care. I don't want sympathy. I don't want compliments. I want action. Read it.

Women. Please, I beg of you PLEASE do not tear each other down. There is so much hate in the world right now. Rape culture. Hating Islam. Hating LGBTQ. No more hate.

Today I put on a pair of mid-thigh denim shorts, a flowy white blouse, flip flops and left the house to runa couple errands.

Let me pause for a moment to tell you it took some courage to both purchase and wear said shorts because my legs, while tan from swimming and muscular from dancing, are (1) not where I would like them to be and (2) are not up traditional beauty standards (read: Photoshopped) because cellulite.

My second errand of the morning was a drop off at the UPS store. I stood in line between two women. Woman #1 in front of me was about sixty. As I took my place in line behind her, she smiled and complimented me on my tan and my hair. We chitchatted about the weather and children until it was her turn at the counter.

It the spirit of paying it forward, I turned to Woman #2 behind me and smiled. Woman #2 was probably about 30-35, very attractive, about a size 8, wearing a shirt that says "COEXIST".

She says: "Your hair really is amazing. ::cocks head to side:: "You should probably rethink the shorts though."

Yeah. Read that again.

My face instantly flushes, not out of embarrassment but anger. No, not anger. Rage. This as my head slowly tilts to the side. If you've seen me really angry you know what I mean.

My fists clenched up. I know this because I felt my nails digging into my palms. So many things ran through my head. Because I don't have time to get arrested today, what came out was this:

"You should probably rethink your shirt."

I turned around and ignored her until I left the store. I wanted to say more but was afraid, of all things, that I would start crying. All I wanted to do was go home and change my clothes. And THAT made me angry.

Gender doesn't matter.
Race doesn't matter.
Religion doesn't matter.
Sexual orientation doesn't matter.

But fat?
Apparently fat matters.

And I'll go a step further and say it especially seems to matter as an actress. Matter more than talent. Than attitude. Than pretty much anything else. Because fat girls are not believable heroines, ingenues, or objects of sexual desire. But that's a whole other post.

Listen, people.

Especially women.

Plus sized doesn't necessarily mean unhealthy.
Plus sized doesn't necessarily mean lazy.
Plus sized doesn't mean ugly or undesirable or untalented or uncoordinated or LESS. THAN. HUMAN.

You might have an issue with my body. I don't. And I've worked very hard past judgmental family and friends, past divorce, past depression to NOT have an issue with my body.

Women. Do not tear each other down.

Celebrate each other.

Every day.

#effyourbeautystandards#fatactress

You should never fat-shame someone, but especially not when they're running errands. That's the most miserable confluence of day-ruining events imaginable.

Summer is here, and with it barbecues, beach days, and other get-togethers that require long text conversations to plan. So don't be surprised if your attempt to make July 4th plans is ruined by some horribly embarrassing (but funny in hindsight) autocorrect mishap. Though you may cry at your own ruined friendships, you can always laugh at these cringeworthy examples collected by the diligent textcombers at Damn You Autocorrect.

1. I love hating mom at the movies.

2. "Meow." Cat like ta say "meow."

3. The grisliest brunch.

4. Product placement has gone too far.

5. Utilities and sex toys are extra.

6. They'd probably feel great.

7. Sounds more like an emptying station.

8. Kids grow up so fast these days.

9. Pants are the opiate of the masses.

10. Autocorrect is surprisingly racist.

11. That's not that safe.

12. Dad loves grass.

13. An excerpt from Moby Dick 2016.

The only way you're going to earn the love of hundreds of your closest friends on social media is to share this video of an otter eating all the food. This adorable dream weasel has tiny little hands just like tiny little elf-like humans!

It's a scientific fact that friends on social media are important. Nothing else matters. It's also a fact that your friends will definitely NOT love you if you don't share these videos of Mr. Otter having himself a happy little snack party.

Watch! Share! Enjoy a happy life full of loving friends and otters.

Eating is performance art for this little guy.

And his art is 100 times better than Shia LaBeouf's.

Just give him an ice cube and the rest is pure fur magic.

Disney World unveiled the latest attraction that your children are going to be nudging you about: Frozen Ever After. The Frozen-themed attraction is supposed to whisk riders off away to the cold, magical fjords of Arendelle.

The ride is facing ridiculous wait times, with suckers waiting up to five hours to experience the five-minute journey. It's so long, it literally goes past China (well, EPCOT China).

Tweets from the June 21st opening day reported that in addition to the crazy wait times, the ride got shut down due to technical glitches.

Much like Kristoff, it's a bit of a fixer-upper.

If you're not gonna make it to Fake Norway in Disney World anytime soon, take a virtual tour of the ride (five-hour wait not included).

On Wednesday, Leslie Jones took to Twitter to call out designers for not being down to dress her up for the Ghostbusters premiere, a night that will be huge exposure for both her and whatever designer she wears. Now, two designers are pissed and placing the blame on her.

Speaking toPret-a-Reporter,some stylists say that's on her for not being a traditional sample size, and she should have had the foresight to ask for a dress earlier.

"It’s just pure economics," The Hollywood Reporter stylist Jeanne Yang said, "People have this belief that showrooms and designers have racks and racks of clothing in all sizes. They don’t."

Some celebrities who aren't the sample size have to buy the dress, rather than borrow it. Stylist Jessica Paster condescendingly assumed that Jones was trying to get the dress for the biggest premiere of her life at the last minute. Jones, for her part, did not note when she started looking.

"This is nobody’s fault except Leslie’s," Paster says, "She should have known four to five months ago the date of premiere, and said, ‘I’m not a sample size, I need to go to designers early or buy myself a dress.’ Don’t be blaming designers and saying they don’t like you."

Christian Siriano, the designer who raised his hand to Jones' initial tweet, has saved the day in a similar situation before.

Siriano is the savior for many non-sample size stars. Paster said that he worked with Nia Vardalos for the big My Big Fat Greek Wedding 2 premiere.

"Christian Siriano saved the day by pulling non-sample sizes, and he himself, the weekend of the premiere for My Big Fat Greek Wedding 2, did the final fitting with Nia," she said.

Leslie, it looks like designers are getting defensive, seeming like assholes while trying to assert that they're not assholes.

Scarlett Johansson is now the highest-grossing actress off all time. According to Box Office Mojo, her movies have raked in $3.3 billion at the North American box office. This also puts her at number 10 on the overall list of highest-grossing actors. Her new standing is a result of her role as Black Widow in the Avengers and Captain America movies.

Johansson is currently the only woman in the top 10, and hopefully that changes soon (other top female box office performers on the list include Cameron Diaz for Shrek 2 and Helena Bonham Carter for Harry Potter and the Deathly Hallows: Part 2). Johansson once hinted that her baller status at the box office may have contributed to her split with Ryan Reynolds because he was jealous.

He's going to be jealous for quite a while, because he's not anywhere on the list. Congrats to ScarJo, and long may she reign.

Kids' rooms can truly be a nightmare. God only knows what's lurking under all the toys and clothes that accumulate, seemingly in mere seconds, all over every available surface—not to mention the things forgotten or stowed away in secret places. The younger kids are apt to have weird, gross stuff lost or hidden in the mess, and the older ones are sure to have something slightly (or highly) inappropriate (and often still weird and gross, too) stashed somewhere among all the other typical teenage accouterments. Take, for example, this dad in Texas who found a (nearly empty) bottle of whiskey in his daughter's sock drawer while she was away, and sent her a really nice video just letting her know they'd be having a little chat when she got home.

In that vein, here are 16 of the weirdest, funniest, most shocking, and straight up grossest things parents have ever found in their kids' bedrooms, found in several Reddit threads (as well as a few other places).

1. Radar3066's son is wise to the ways of snooping parents.

A Playboy taped to the underside of his mattress. So if you lifted the mattress you wouldn't directly see it.

2. FaustusRedux is obviously not in on the secret.

I do not know why, but my 8 year old has taped a mustard packet to his door and labelled it "Top Secret."

3. Starshyne83's son had a pretty mean lazy streak.

I noticed a lot of our large glasses were missing, so I went down to my stepson's room. Found all the missing glassware under his bed, filled with urine. Turned out he didn't feel like coming upstairs to use the bathroom late at night...

4. mikehlav's son is a little too enthusiastic about arts and crafts.

One time a bunch of my wife and I's condoms went missing. I didn't think much of it. I just figured I had misplaced them. About 3 weeks later I was in my sons room when I noticed a absolutely putrid smell. It seemed to be coming from his open window. I slowly and cautiously approached. The smell became stronger, until I was literally gagging. I could not take it anymore. I peeked my head out the window. There it was, tacked to the wood framing right underneath the roof, was a line of more than 15 slimy blue condoms. Each one was stuffed, absolutely full, of every shape, texture, and color of shit. They were all stuffed so full that there is no way he didn't get his hands dirty shoving it all in there. I had to confront him about it. He told me he was making wind chimes..... Wtf?

5. Comonnow's daughter just might grow up to be a horror movie fan.

My daughter is five and it seems as though my wife and I and others have bought her every doll or stuffed animal known to man. I was picking up the house one day and of course found one her dolls outside its lair in the living room. I go to return it to her room and as I walk in i realize every single one of her dolls was set up staring directly at the door where i had just entered. Freaked me out a little. When my daughter got home from school I had to ask her why, cause she had never arranged them like that before, and she casually stated she wants them all to see her when she gets home. Sounds reasonable.

6. Cannedbeans's son's plan was almost perfect.

When my son was around 6, I was cleaning his room, and came upon a very big ball of thread, inside of a sock, intermingled with cheetos. I unraveled it, and discovered he had tied the cheetos at intervals along the thread, creating a kind of cheeto garland. I asked him about it, and he said he was going to try and eat them, one at a time, and then poop the string out, and floss himself. Flawless logic.

7. Lextron5000's cousins got themselves some pets.

My aunt found two dried up goldfish behind the bed...they have never had goldfish...

8. Posted on Reddit by Elshak, this thoughtful dad found something belonging to his obviously older child and asked before disposing of it.

9. Legen--dary's son's secret wasn't as terrible as he thought it was.

Overall my kid is pretty normal. He's 7, and a month ago I found an envelope with the words "top secrt" written on it hidden under his mattress. I opened it and he had written all over a piece of paper "my favorit color is PINK" over and over. His favorite color has been green since he's been 2. (Or so I thought.) We talked to him about it and he was afraid he'd be teased for liking pink. (We've just moved to a new area and adjusting to the new school has been difficult.) We talked to him about it and he now has a few pink shirts and we're looking to see if we can find pink toys that aren't girls toys. (He wants superheroes, soldiers and legos,...but pink. It's harder than you think.)

10. 50MillionChickens's son had already picked out his future career, and even added a back-up plan.

My 8-yr-old son had a folded up note in his drawer that said "My future" on the outside. On the inside there was a line down the middle.

One side: "CIA"

Other side: "Janitor"

11. Ram_it_in's son had a foolproof plan for staying safe at night.

My five year old son wrote on the foot board of his bed with a crayon: PLEASE DON'T KILL ME

It freaked me out for a moment but I realized it was a message for closet and under-the-bed monsters.

12. A mother on Mumsnet using the handle myotherusernameisbetter cleaned her son's room and found a bunch of empty food containers and one full one.

Yes, I know he is perfectly capable of doing his own room, but today DS2 (13) was away for the day and I was waiting on hospital visiting time as my Mum is very unwell, I needed something to keep me occupied so I decided to do DSs room as a treat.

He usually picks up all his laundry and clears up any rubbish on a Saturday himself as that's his responsibility but as he was away at 9am he didn't have a chance yet. We have a "no food upstairs" rule.

Anyway, apart from the dirty laundry I found:

2 empty juice bottles
1 empty smoothie carton
1 empty milk shake carton
6 empty crisp packets
3 apple cores
a pile of orange peel
1 grape
a pile of sweet wrappers
some bits of popcorn
2 plastic bowls
2 plastic cups

......and a Pringle tube full of urine

We are going to have to have a talk when he gets home!

13. Underverbed's daughter understood that sometimes you need a light snack to get you through the night.

A stack of tortillas under my daughter's pillow. I think she was 5 years old at the time.

14. Menudotacoburrito's son learned about sharing, and decided he wasn't into it.

I once found 32 juice box straws in my sons room. He was 3 at the time, and had gone through the entire case of juice boxes, pulled the straws off and hid them so his sister (who was 4) couldn't drink them. He knew how to poke a hole in the top and suck it out, and she couldn't. If his plan had worked they would have all been his.

15. Bonro's kids were as surprised as she was.

Happened a few years ago when my son was about ~14, daughter ~11.

My son is on a local swim team and goes to practice every day after school. He's a talented swimmer but sort of a disorganized kid, and at first I didn't bat an eye when he reported he'd misplaced his swim goggles. So I bought him another pair...which he promptly also lost. This went on for quite awhile, leading to shouting matches -- the goggles weren't expensive but they weren't cheap ($20-$25 range), and after about the tenth pair I told him he'd need to pay to replace future pairs himself. Still kept losing them. I didn't know whether to be exasperated or amused. Mostly exasperated, at the time.

About a year later I'm supervising my daughter as she cleans her room and we pull the bed away from the wall. There's a clattering sound, and a pair of swim goggles appears out of nowhere, seeming to fall from beneath the mattress. My daughter looks convincingly clueless. I investigate and find a tear in the bottom of the upholstered box spring and 31 pairs of swim goggles stashed inside my daughter's bed. It was like a clown car -- every time I reached in and retrieved a pair, more pairs would come tumbling along with it. My daughter swore she had no idea what happened, but eventually we figured it out: her pet ferret, Miles, had been stealing the goggles and stashing them when she let him out to play. There was some other junk in there, too -- a couple of pens and the insole of a sneaker -- but goggles were clearly his favorite. He'd been taking them from my son's gym bag, always left on the floor with the zippered flap conveniently ajar in the next room.

16. The pills this mom found in her teen's room weren't drugs, although they'd still be pretty dangerous if swallowed.

For most of recorded history, men may have had control over the world. But women have had one thing men don't: the ability to produce life purses.

Purses have been vital to the female species in concealing our tampons and birth control fashionably (also, to hold some lipstick and a paper straw wrapper that is always at the bottom of the bag for some reason). To honor our long history carrying our shit around, Mode made a quick video of handbag evolution over the last 100 years, and displayed all the crap stuffed into them typical for the generation.

Check out how delicate everything from 1916 was:

By 1976, we can see this isn't just about purses, it's a visual representation of our place in society. And wicker. And beads.

Here's the whole evolution, from 1916-2016:

By contrast, men's pockets haven't really haven't changed all that much.

Oh, Florida (aka America's Australia), you just don't quit, do you? On Thursday morning in Ocala, FL, a woman named Leslie Mills was seriously in the mood for sex. When her amorous attempts didn't work, she thought an axe might. Look, it's important be spontaneous and creative in relationships.

According to The Smoking Gun, Mills, 26, returned from a night of drinking (drinking what? PCP?) and woke up the man in her house (whose relationship to Mills is as of yet unclear, to police as well as maybe Mills and the man himself), looking for some morning sex. He wasn't into it, and moved to the couch to get away from her, but mere relocation wasn't going to work in this case. Mills followed him to the couch and got on top of him, so he escaped to the bathroom and locked the door. Mere door-locking also wasn't going to work in this case. Mills began pounding on the door and managed to open it. And men say women don't think about sex.

At this point the man couldn't help but notice that Mills was now holding a hatchet that had been on the living room wall (where hatchets go, duh), which she then held up as though she were going to try to hit him with it. This woman is the Lizzie Borden of Pepe le Pews.

The guy managed to wrest the hatchet from her hands (she apparently bit him on the bicep in the process), ran out of the house, and called 911. Cops showed up to find Mills, definitely drunk and most certainly wearing nothing but a bathrobe.

She was arrested and charged with aggravated assault with a deadly weapon and domestic battery. She posted $5,500 for her bond and is scheduled for a July 26 court hearing. Hopefully she'll show up sans axe.

Abuse is never funny, no matter who's on the receiving end. But if websites wrote posts every single time a man did something violent to a woman, everywhere in the country, they would probably literally never stop writing. ​Women just don't seem to threaten men with bodily harm at the same rate men do. And when they do, going to go out on a limb and say probably only a small percentage are over the man refusing to have sex. But something's in the air in Florida. It's not the heat, it's the humidity.

A fun way to celebrate a one-year anniversary of a separation could be with a stack of divorce papers and chocolates shaped like broken hearts. But Jennifer Garner and Ben Affleck celebrated theirs this week by continuing to wade through the murky waters of marriage purgatory.

A year ago, Ben Affleck and Jennifer Garner announced they were separating after a decade of marriage. But the former lovebirds seem to have no plans to make it official, and as a friend of Garner's told People, it's Affleck who's dragging his heels. "Ben still doesn't want the divorce" she said.

Garner has denied rumors of a reconciliation, and is apparently chill af with the whole awkward arrangement. "[She] doesn't seem to mind at all that [the divorce] is not finalized, [but] she seems adamant about going through with it," said the friend.

The duo recently spent a month in Europe with their three kids, Violet, 10, Seraphina, 7, and Samuel, 4, while Affleck filmed upcoming flick Justice League. Back in LA, they are continuing to share a family home and "putting the kids first," according to a source.

"She did have the best time in Europe with Ben and the kids," said Garner's friend. "She seemed to enjoy spending time with Ben again." If he doesn't ask for her hand in (re)marriage over the intercom on an airplane at the end of this rom-com, we should all get our money back.